Most of the clubs I go to usually play really loud music, so the only way to really game women is by dancing. When I approach cold, they almost always seem to be reluctant to dance with me. If I meet them in the smokers or whatever, they usually do dance.

What I'm asking is basically how to force IOI's to non-verbally open women?

I get the feeling your facial expression is just serious and that will make them look away

At least break the ice when you make the eye contact with a smirk:

- Pull your tongue at her
- Raise your glass in a 'Cheers' motion
- Tip your imaginary cowboy hat
- Point at her
- Motion her to twirl around then give her a *thumbs up*
- A cheesy infantile wave
- Point to something that you notice bout her with a thumbs up. (non-verbal compliment)
- And much, more

Once you get this down, you can make really subtle meta-communication. It's like seeing the matrix.

This one time, I was sat down and made eye contact, as soon she looked at me, I patted the seat next to me hinting for her to sit down next to me and instantly looked away (To make it seem like a didn't care at all) - This shit is hard when it's the 1st interaction of the night. But when you're in the groove it's pretty easy to spot a girl, lift your nose up at her and then break the ice.

This is all I do, I rarely cold approach these days but i get rejected less and get laid more without having to spam out the place asking girls RSD-style if they like potatoes or some shit.

If you just stare at a girl like a rapist, they ain't gonna smile back