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So I am trying to start up again with active gaming. I haven't done so since February of this year. After a pretty successful lay, I tried holding myself up to that standard. Although I had just been doing so since November, I felt after that I set a new standard. But this was a new standard I couldn't seem to repeat again.
For one thing, I don't think I ever truly did anything to curb my approach anxiety. I would see possible woman I was interested in but kept second guessing myself with excuses about logistics. Then I would go sarging at one location or another and just completely fail to open anyone. Just have a fear of approach anxiety worse than I had ever started. I just became a complete wimp. I have seen with my own eyes I can do it. I know in my head approaching with woman with confidence is the best opener you can have. I also am aware that a pretty girl’s rejection doesn't mean I don't have self-value.
But I am still plagued with self-limiting beliefs. Has anyone had a similar experience? Or does anyone have any advice on starting back up again? I was thinking that I should do a page 1 rewrite and start back on just opening and leaving. But suggestions would help.
Everyone does to some extent, end of story, some just manage it better than others.
regain your confidence by making small wins, and learning what you can achieve, through real life interactions. Remember anything is possible put your self in the right shoes.
3 Second rule no exceptions! Control your imagination don't let it run wild it will destroy you.