I find that in daygame it's harder than in nightgame, but just make the context of your actions match the setting. When you are walking somewhere, eg. in or out of a pub on a first date, maybe start walking the non-obvious route, and gently use your hand on the small of her back to just usher her the same direction as you. If you're having conversation at the same time, it will just feel natural to her.
Linking arms is a good one. It's way less forward than holding hands, and you can turn it into something fun, or a roleplay. It only really works while you're walking somewhere though. It's not the kind of thing you could necessarily do walking through the bar. I think it builds comfort over a longer period.
Another one you can do while walking, is as you are walking along side by side, just use your shoulder, hip, arm etc to firmly but slowly push her into an oncoming obstacle such as a wall, bin, lampost, muddy puddle etc. She will almost always push back on you and it's a good way of getting her to initiate contact back towards you. You can even escalate it when she tries to push back towards you (they often do this with their hips/ass), by putting your arm around her waist, or around her shoulder and pulling her in towards you.
I think kino escalation is much easier done if you're just sitting, and ideally sitting next to eachother. A really standard one I use is inspecting her hands. You have to create a lighthearted mood with a little sexual tension beforehand, but then take her hands and say omg do you bite your nails, why are they so dry, you have really small hands etc. and just play with them. You won't find much resistance here normally so long as the girl has had sufficient comfort built with you.
If you don't want to go straight in to inspect her hands, then something I always use is the thumb war. I get the girl to thumb war, and it can tell you a little about her. Some girls will say stuff like, 'don't let me win, I hate it when guys do that', and others will say, 'omg you are supposed to be a gentleman, you could atleast let me win'. The latter is a kind of shit test, but it's not that important. From the thumb war, you can escalate, to hand holding, and sometimes just remaining holding her hand, while talking will be huge for a girl. How many guys do you think have the confidence to sit and have conversation while holding hands, and giving strong eye contact. Most guys will be far too concerned with nerves, making arkward conversation, etc.
Finally you can do random stuff and make it up on the fly. Just make sure what you do matches the mood. The other day I was with a girl and we went for a walk around the woods. She had with her a bottle of water, which I took off her quite early on, and when we came to a spot where there was a bench, I took the subject onto the conversation of farm animals. I told her I was going to bottle feed her like a little lamb. When we sat down I played with her hands for a bit, and then put my arm around her shoulder and pulled her close before feeding her a drink of her water. She played along laughing and I was perfectly set to turn her head towards mine and kiss close, which I did. Job done.
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