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Author:  Tow [ Sun Apr 03, 2016 11:20 am ]
Post subject:  Fail to show dhv/create attraction in interactions
Hey guys!

It does not matter if it is online game, day game or night game, I usually just fail to show the girl in the limited time (attractio window?) my attractive personality traits. Normally they really like to talk to me, but online they never "have time" and in face-to-face game the conversations just stay friendly and/or stall. Funny thing is they still message me on my birthday etc. So they either are fishing for my attention/validation and/or like talking to me.

Just for reference, my standard opener (online) (which I use if there is nothing much to relate to on her profile):
"Hi ;)
I thought you look cute and fun, so I wanted to see if it's true :D
What do you like to do in your free time? ;)"

Face-to-face I usually start off with a bit of small talk, whatever comes to my mind. But never the weather etc. :D

Feel free to ask anything so I can help you help me :D

Thanks in advance
Author:  Tow [ Sun Apr 10, 2016 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fail to show dhv/create attraction in interactions
*push* because of 30 views and yet no response :?
Author:  JackZero [ Sun Apr 10, 2016 6:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fail to show dhv/create attraction in interactions
I'm not going to address the online portion because it's more about the pictures and less about the opener.

However, I would wonder why you use such a direct opener online but not in person. In the indirect, small talk openers you have a small window to build up to revealing your intentions (which she knows on a cold approach). So if there's no flirting involved, women tend to lose interest really quickly.
Author:  Tow [ Sun Apr 10, 2016 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fail to show dhv/create attraction in interactions
Quote:
I'm not going to address the online portion because it's more about the pictures and less about the opener.

However, I would wonder why you use such a direct opener online but not in person. In the indirect, small talk openers you have a small window to build up to revealing your intentions (which she knows on a cold approach). So if there's no flirting involved, women tend to lose interest really quickly.
Thanks, your "wondering" seems already helpful. I guess face to face I am still too, let's say, shy.
Author:  dicemaster [ Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fail to show dhv/create attraction in interactions
Op it is all about having big balls. It is unbeliable easy to reach to chicks and start a convo. So no worries, just should learn how to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Ater 1 2 mins small talk escalate kino and lead them dance then isolate to kclose.
Author:  Tow [ Wed Apr 13, 2016 6:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fail to show dhv/create attraction in interactions
Quote:
Op it is all about having big balls. It is unbeliable easy to reach to chicks and start a convo. So no worries, just should learn how to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Ater 1 2 mins small talk escalate kino and lead them dance then isolate to kclose.
Thank you too
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