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| Author: | DMVA100 [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 12:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Outcome Independence and the Friendzone |
I've been running into a gray area on first dates (Not social sethings or a night out with the bros). I cannot seem to balance outcome independence/aloofness and avoiding the friendzone. Obviously you want to be the prize that she must win over, but not showing desire for her in will land me in the friendzone or beta category. Sometimes I feel like the more I try to escalate whether it be sexual convo, kino, or kiss, I surrender my interests and give her control. How can you not care about the outcome without showing your intentions and not be perceived as needy? Seems a catch 22 in a sense depending on the interaction. Ps. I'm a noob. |
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| Author: | Finished [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Outcome Independence and the Friendzone |
You obviously want to fuck her... But you don't care if you fuck her or not. Make sense? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Outcome Independence and the Friendzone |
You are offering pleasure to her. She is replaceable. You can take it or leave it because you have a phone full of girls texting you. If you don't have a phone full of girls chasing you, I guess you will have to fake it till you make it. But eventually you will become it. Getting laid with new girls is so much easier when you have 3 fuck buddies on the go. They see the twinkle, they know you're not gagging for it. It is a 6th sense, it is the smell of preselection. |
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