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Author:  maxpua77 [ Sun Sep 27, 2015 3:31 pm ]
Post subject:  How did my text game flow? did i fuck up? need analysis

met a girl friday night on the street, chatted it up. Considering I was drunk, lets just say my words werent the correct ones. I even forgot her name during the initial interaction and she had to say it again....but through all of this she still liked me and her friend were saying to keep chatting.

anyways, fast forward she took my phone and put her number in after i said we should hang out again in the future.

So sat afternoon rolls around, i wake up figure i send a text. (too early?)

There was already texts in the phone, the first ones being from the night before:

me: "hi sally" her: "hi shawn" her: sean her: shane

So when i woke up in the afternoonish sat, i thought ok, let me respond to this

me around 1pm: "i cant imagine how retarded i must have sounded yesterday. But can we redo this interaction Sally :) and its Shawn" her about 4pm: "haha don't worry about it!" her 3 min later: "it was nice meeting you :)"

me about 1.5 hours later: "so when are we seeing each other again? im curious to learn more"

Now I know what some of you are going to say and that is move on, NEXT. But i have always sucked at text game, so I want to use this to basically see what would be the better way to have handled it. I feel like my last line was stupid, maybe it was too soon to ask that question? I just want your opinion on how the text flowed or should have flowed..including how long i should have waited before i sent it.

thanks again!

Author:  Unfazed [ Sun Sep 27, 2015 6:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How did my text game flow? did i fuck up? need analysis

Instead of, "so when are we hanging out again" (too needy) you could do, "Hey I was planning on doing XYZ thing at ABC place on FGH time. Feel free to join!" Less needy because you're already going to be doing something regardless of what she does.

Author:  maxpua77 [ Sun Sep 27, 2015 6:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How did my text game flow? did i fuck up? need analysis

haven't got a reply yet (don't think i will) because of the needy statement. I am a realist about this stuff lol.

But is it a no no to send "hey i am going to be at xyz on yzx, feel free to come by for a drink or two" come next friday? She doesn't live in the city so saying that few hours before probably won't work IF i had any bit of chance left.

just wondering...otherwise ill just delete and carry on.

thanks!

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