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| Author: | kingk12 [ Sun Aug 30, 2015 10:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | girls always reject me through thier body language |
so this has been a problem from me always but i only noticed it. I used to game for 3 years. took a 2 year break and now back on it. Firstly i noticed the quality of girls i get is terrible (chubs, women with physical problems, older women). secondly i notice regardless of the scale any women i approach literally become cold and distant when i open. Now there have been cases from the start where i knew my body language and tone was crap so it was understandable. nowadays im high energy dont say anything f'd up, infact there are times where me wing would do the same thing as me and he hooks and i dont (WITH the same GIRL). let me describe last night as a example My wing opens a set of 7-8s. takes one outside and chats for a while. they met before this and he was trying to push further. i basically join them for a while. my wing takes off to the toilet, and i just make good talk with the girl, the whole way she basically crossed her arms, kept looking everywhere to find her firnds and generally did not engage at all giving one word answers or just flat out ignoring my questions. and this happens a lot. like i yet to have a set where this isnt to be expected. out of a 100 opens 90 with be these disintrested sets( the other 10 there other problems) I am at a stage where i dont know how much more open and intresting i have to be to hook. the same night i opened a 8 who openely say she found me atteractive, yet ignored all my talk and then deleted my number and fb. I have tried using different convo threads, being less energitic, being more energetic, actually using jokes that are meant to be funny (aka in any situatuion other than club girls, i get laughs, or atleaest the ice broken) Any advice appreaciated. i feel like every time i milk the club only to get nothing but a load of negative experience( the girls dont even just put me down its the flat out lack of acknowledgement to even tell me to fuck off atleast). I actually am struggling in this |
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| Author: | Hotu [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 10:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: girls always reject me through thier body language |
Sounds to me you are caught in a negative spiral. Probably, your inner game is shining through and they get the notion you are frustrated or want something from them. I have this a lot too, and I noticed that if I have a night where I am happy with myself and just having some fun. Things seem to go real easy, gaming or closing it doesn't matter. But if I have a night where I am feeling pissed, and I just NEED to score. The whole night turns into this uphill battle; getting blown out heavily, getting insulted, getting ignored etc. The danger is, that the uphill nights get you down and you can get stuck in a spiral. I suggest you go back to the drawing board with yourself and figure out ho you can get in the best state possible and game on from there. It really seems like an inner game problem to me when I think of your description. The funny thing is; I once had a really good night, I number closed a 9 and kiss closed 8,5 wihtin the hour in a club. The number close pissed of an orbiter, and the kiss closed pissed off a women who got really rude with me. The women later turned out to be lesbian and hoped things would happen with the HB I closed. ALso when I was kissing, a 2 set started laughing at us (it was quite racist, becuase the women I was with is Brazilian and I am white). The 2 set was actually giving me bitch shields, that I was to lazy to game. So I walked away in the middle of a bitchy thing she did. They were actually jeleous of the woman I think. My point about the last thing is: even if you are feeling a 100% and you are getting reslults; you can still get hostile reactions. Everyon is out there with their own goals and selfish ego's. Reproduction is war. Good luck! I hope this helps. I've been struggling with the same, but I discovered that the most important thing is to work on yourself and make sure gaming is fun and positive. Then results will come. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Sep 13, 2015 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: girls always reject me through thier body language |
Don't be concerned that it has to go well, don't be wanting something from them. Bring the good vibes to the interactions. Be centered in your own worth. Be looking forward to the future. Trigger the state of when you were doing well. I think a good portion of the results that are coming across could be due to having a feeling of "here goes nothing" as opposed to the feeling of gliding in to her life with a suave demeanor. |
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