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| Author: | Sparton [ Mon Aug 24, 2015 9:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Talking/flirting |
Alright so I feel like this is my biggest problem now. I can talk to anyone, but when I start talking to a girl I'm interested I get bored of the conversation very easily. I'm not that great at flirting either. I know the best thing to do is to go out and talk, but how do you keep an conversation fun/flirty with a chick? If you know of any good threads or books on this let me know. Thanks |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 2:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
I don't really have a good idea of what you are saying now. I would say that it will almost always benefit you to try new things and flirt in new ways. Some of my examples lately: -Leaning into a girl and whispering in her ear "I have to confess my undying affection for you." -Talking to a feminist about social politics while giving my friend the two fingers between the tongue, that one was fun. I have recently tried to ramp up the romance I tell a girl. Shit like, "I would throw pebbles at your window." "Your eyes remind me of the universe. Stupid stuff, find out what works for you. Maybe find a role model and copy some of his stuff. I watched Jeffy speak and since copied his prom roleplay. |
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| Author: | Sparton [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
My conversations are very, plain. I had one night where I went out and I did awesome. But I was so drunk I don't remember what I said. I know she was really attracted to me because my friend was there and told me about it. Lol hence why I quit drinking.... But when I'm out and talking to women, idk like I'll just have a normal conversation. I have trouble escalating the conversation. I can build comfort, but that's about it. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 2:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
If you get into that goofy state, the good chat comes from your mouth naturally and girls are lapping it up. I think you only need to learn conversation techniques when you're low energy and out of state. Anything is better than asking her occupation and if she comes here often |
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| Author: | Sparton [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 2:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
Quote: If you get into that goofy state, the good chat comes from your mouth naturally and girls are lapping it up.
What's your suggestions on how to learn techniques on low energy and when I'm out of state?
I think you only need to learn conversation techniques when you're low energy and out of state. Anything is better than asking her occupation and if she comes here often |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 2:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
Rejection and dancing or both at the same time , but that's just me |
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| Author: | Sparton [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
Oh, well dancing isn't a normal thing for me. What about during day game? I know practice makes perfect, but is there anything specific I should focus on? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 3:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
Quote: Oh, well dancing isn't a normal thing for me. What about during day game? I know practice makes perfect, but is there anything specific I should focus on?
Like I said, Rejection. You will feel the groove when get warmed up. |
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| Author: | Sparton [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 3:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
Hmmm ok, I've been rejected a lot in the last few months. I'll have to change up my approach and conversations. |
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| Author: | Sparton [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 3:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
But on this, I've never really have ever flirted. It seems foreign to me. I was always a "nice guy" and never pushed flirting because it was out of my comfort zone. But now I'm getting to the point where I don't care if I get rejected. I've had plenty of rejections, but I'd like to see something come out of these instead of just rejections. And I know that my communication isn't that great. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 4:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
If you think flirting will help you then do that. There is heaps of content on the subject. It's kinda game basics. You're not immersed with pick up. Stop dabbling and learn from each girl to the next. If you're not approaching 20-40 girls a week. You're wasting your time here |
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| Author: | Sparton [ Tue Aug 25, 2015 5:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking/flirting |
It's impossible to approach that many women a week where I live now. Hopefully I'll be moving in a couple of months where that can be a possibility. |
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