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Author:  kiolmainster [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:37 pm ]
Post subject:  urgent help needed
Hi

English isnt my native language so I hope you guys understand.

Im pretty new to this stuff. I need some help with a girl whom with I probably already messed things up. So I had a date with this girl and she was amazing. A lot more beatuful than other girls Ive dated. First date went great and we kept texting after it. Even tho I really wanted her I was able to be cool. So I was able to set another date to next sunday. But before the date I went to a club and I saw her there. I went to talk to her and we ended up talkig long time. She had been talking about me to her friends because they knew who I was and right away they left and gave us time to talk to alone. So there I was talking to this girl and everything got really messy. I actually didnt just wanna fuck her and instead I said to her that she is a really cool person but I would rather meet you monday and get to know her better. (also I said stuff like im not that sure about you yet and I wanna get to know you better). Well she was into it but I made a mistake and didnt leave early enough. We kept talking and talking and in the end things didnt go that well. I gave her way too much compliments and in a really akward way I went close to her and said she looks really sexy. And the timing for that alse sucked. She didnt respond well. Long story short I let her know that I actually really liked her. I got this really bad feeling that it didnt go that well at all.

Next day we texted a little. She wanted to reschedule our date to next monday instead of sunday. I asked if 8 pm would work. After that message she hasnt texted me back. She usually answers right away but now it has been over one day. I dont know what to do. Should I just wait and see what happens or what do you guys think? Usually I wouldnt care that much but theres something in this girl, not just looks. Or maybe just looks :P either way I wanna meet this girl again.

Thanks for your answers.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: urgent help needed
You are hiding the fact that you are afraid to make the move.

Her friend's left you to fuck her brains out. She probably wanted to get laid that night. You were not man enough to take it the next step.

Girls lose attraction when you don't fuck them when they want to.

You can get to know her when you're lay in each other's arms in bed. Let's just be honest, you are afraid to make the move. You didn't even go for the kiss.

Sounds like you need to focus on this problem so it doesn't happen again don't you think?

She has probably fucked someone else by now. (Probably 'Model' from this forum.)
Author:  kiolmainster [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: urgent help needed
I dont think thats the problem. But I think you are right that I should have made the move. I know this better next time. But you really didnt answer my question. Is there something I still could do?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: urgent help needed
You seem to be aware of the mistakes you were making. You continued to push despite being met with slight resistance each and every time. Now messaging her again would only be more of the same.

Mild oneitis development. Your remedy is time and space. Don't contact her. Let her come on her own and if she doesn't you just have to learn to let go.

Its always those "special girls" that these things happen with it and its because we think of them as such. So until you learn to "let them go" you won't be able to have them.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 8:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: urgent help needed
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I dont think thats the problem.
Ah, okay, you know best. Any idea what else it could be?
Author:  nickpad1 [ Sat Aug 01, 2015 4:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: urgent help needed
Quote:
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I dont think thats the problem.
Ah, okay, you know best. Any idea what else it could be?
Lol, pebble savage as fuck.
Author:  kiolmainster [ Sat Aug 01, 2015 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: urgent help needed
Why I started to say those stupid stuff was probably because for some reason I run out of things to say. And the reason for that was that she was that "special". I got nervous. And I think that is something I need to work on. I think it was a good advice that I need to learn how to let go.

Making the move is not a problem for me. But this time I didnt feel like making the move and go for a kiss. I didnt think it would have been the best move. But yeah I might have been wrong. Also I was too drunk. In my head it sounded so much better to kiss her sober next time we meet. Im not trying to make excuses for not kissing. I just didnt feel like it.

Few times I have went for the kiss too early and for some reason that ended all. What do you guys think why is that. I dont think im that bad of a kisser :D

But that girl texted me back and we have a date on monday. Unless something "comes up" :D. Ill let you guys know how it goes.

Thanks for the answers
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