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Author:  Style981 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Why cant i maintain consistency ??
Before knowing abt the game i was still average in my game as i am cnfident and looks wise gud. After learning the game, i achieved more than i cud ever achieve in my whole life (in terms of game).
However theres one problem i still cant solve. Why cant i maintain consistency in my game or in general in happiness ??
My life has always been sinusoidal as far as game is concernd...wich means i get gals for a short period of time (i call it my peak time) then go into depression for some time (months) then again i get into game n m like the king of the world and the cycle repeats.
I knw some guys who r consistent n live a perfectly BALANCED life..they never get short of gals n thngs go smoothly for them.. Y is it not wid me ??
Is it just life or does it have to do smthng wid my Inner Game (n the way my psychology works) ??
Author:  PapacitoGrande [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 3:56 pm ]
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I feel you bro but it is life man.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 6:37 pm ]
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As your progress, you're "highs" of today will become your "lows" of tomorrow.

Lets say getting 2 girls a month is your high today, and getting no girls a month is your low. With consistency effort getting 2 girls a month will become your new low and you will feel like " fuck.. I suck at this right now" - while there are others that would be jumping for joy at the idea of getting two women a month.

How long have you been in it and how often do you practice?

Do you masturbate?

Whats your diet like?

And what are the circumstances you are living under?

Depression isn't natural; its just become natural because of the environments we are living in. We're eating depression, sleeping in depressed areas and feeling our minds with depressing entertainment. Everything we take in throughout any of our senses is being consumed by us and will become apart of us one way or another.

What kind of music do you listen to? Its your ears diet.

What kind of food do you eat? Its your body/mouths diet

What kind of tv programs do you watch? What type of neighborhood are you in? Its your eyes diet and so forth.

Everything you consume through any of your five senses is energy that will be stored within you. That energy must manifest before exiting the body. The same way one would shit out their food. So take into account what it is you are absorbing on a daily basis and you will be able to make the corrections that will meet you with a cure to your problem.

Along with actively approaching and expanding your comfort zone.
Author:  PatrickAnanda [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 11:55 am ]
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Quote:
Before knowing abt the game i was still average in my game as i am cnfident and looks wise gud. After learning the game, i achieved more than i cud ever achieve in my whole life (in terms of game).
However theres one problem i still cant solve. Why cant i maintain consistency in my game or in general in happiness ??
My life has always been sinusoidal as far as game is concernd...wich means i get gals for a short period of time (i call it my peak time) then go into depression for some time (months) then again i get into game n m like the king of the world and the cycle repeats.
I knw some guys who r consistent n live a perfectly BALANCED life..they never get short of gals n thngs go smoothly for them.. Y is it not wid me ??
Is it just life or does it have to do smthng wid my Inner Game (n the way my psychology works) ??
You are not Centered.

You do not know who you are as a man, what you want out of life, how you wish to be treated and what you expect from those around you.

In short; You do not feel like a man, because you do not know who you are.

Getting better at 'game' will not help you, though a consequence of knowing yourself is effortless attraction, it should not be the goal.

What do you live for? What is your purpose? What will you be remembered for?

These are all questions you must ask yourself.
PM me if you need any additional help.

With love and respect
Mack
Author:  Style981 [ Thu Jun 11, 2015 8:16 pm ]
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@Eddie ... u r ryte.. environment plays a very imp role.. 1st there r no clubs in my country so theres not much sarging to be seen here.. 2nd m an engineering student so working all day long for 6 mnths straight kinda depresses u.. when u see other people having more fun than u..

@the Mack.. thnx a lot for ur offer. i wud like to tell u tht learning Game actually made me find my purpose in life.. I used to hate my field (engineering) but ever since i learned the Game i started loving my field as well..probably bcz i got the ANSWERS i was lukin for..

Wat still bothers me is tht even though m composed there comes a time when i kinds feel like empty (about sarging) n at tht time if m not getting any results tht kinda puts me down.. though the intensity has much reduced now as it was before.
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Anyways thank u every one for replying. i was always get great help from this forum :)
Author:  aris13pat [ Sun Jul 12, 2015 8:59 pm ]
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If my opinion has any value then I would say that nobody can.Nobody is always happy or confident.Just find yourself.Write all your strenghts and your abilities that make you unique.Then you won't care about a rejection.I have the same problem with you from time to time...Then I remember that that's life,with ups and downs...In my opinion don't think on where right now but do something everyday that is important to you and soon you will be the man you want.It doesn't have to be a huge change...And visualize yourself be the man you want. :wink:
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Jul 18, 2015 9:39 pm ]
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This subject can never be consistent. Quality and quantity is always going to fluctuate. Always.

Look at stock graphs, you think all those people that invest are going to crazy every time there is a drop or a rise? Well they do go crazy, but I guess you still see my point.
Author:  Style981 [ Mon Jul 20, 2015 8:26 pm ]
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thnx for all ur opinions guys. I was more specific abt the game. otherwise i had mt life pretty gud career wise. i topped my school n was always an A grader until last 3 to 4 years when i gor depressed (coz i wasnt gud at game). but then again after i came to knw abt game i got gud career wise n even in game.

But there's a difference b/w career (which r my studies at the moment) and game. If u work hard in studies u can pretty surely get gud results. while in game its not. Why is dat so ??

N then there r some guys i knw who get laid all the time.Now they too have other problems (career, family etc) but i kinda luk up to them n feel this "void" in my life. Somehow i feel if m getting gals all the time my "OTHER PROBLEMS" wont feel as big. Somehow this comparison comes into play (though i knw i shudnt be cmparing to others)
Author:  carlito_xb [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 2:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why cant i maintain consistency ??
Quote:
Before knowing abt the game i was still average in my game as i am cnfident and looks wise gud. After learning the game, i achieved more than i cud ever achieve in my whole life (in terms of game).
However theres one problem i still cant solve. Why cant i maintain consistency in my game or in general in happiness ??
My life has always been sinusoidal as far as game is concernd...wich means i get gals for a short period of time (i call it my peak time) then go into depression for some time (months) then again i get into game n m like the king of the world and the cycle repeats.
I knw some guys who r consistent n live a perfectly BALANCED life..they never get short of gals n thngs go smoothly for them.. Y is it not wid me ??
Is it just life or does it have to do smthng wid my Inner Game (n the way my psychology works) ??
Author:  carlito_xb [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 2:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why cant i maintain consistency ??
And that is what i hate about seduction.Is so two-faced it makes me wanna puke.
When you build attraction you have to badboy/jerk.No problem playing that role.But you also have to build comfort.Where you basicly have to shift your personality to nice guy mode.No problem playing that role neither.But i cant play both.I cant shift.It feels awkward.Two faced.
If i have to be the badboy/jerk then i wanna be that all the way and not suddenly switch to a nice guy persona.Its weird and i think the shifting from badboy to niceboy.Thats the part most guys struggle with.You need to combine both and balance it right.You have to be two faced.Rollercoaster.
Author:  alienboy [ Fri Apr 15, 2016 7:28 am ]
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And that is what i hate about seduction.Is so two-faced it makes me wanna puke.
When you build attraction you have to badboy/jerk.No problem playing that role.But you also have to build comfort.Where you basicly have to shift your personality to nice guy mode.No problem playing that role neither.But i cant play both.I cant shift.It feels awkward.Two faced.
If i have to be the badboy/jerk then i wanna be that all the way and not suddenly switch to a nice guy persona.Its weird and i think the shifting from badboy to niceboy.Thats the part most guys struggle with.You need to combine both and balance it right.You have to be two faced.Rollercoaster.
Yes it is exactly like this. It is like this because women make it so damn difficult for men lol.
Author:  Style981 [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 12:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why cant i maintain consistency ??
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And that is what i hate about seduction.Is so two-faced it makes me wanna puke.
When you build attraction you have to badboy/jerk.No problem playing that role.But you also have to build comfort.Where you basicly have to shift your personality to nice guy mode.No problem playing that role neither.But i cant play both.I cant shift.It feels awkward.Two faced.
If i have to be the badboy/jerk then i wanna be that all the way and not suddenly switch to a nice guy persona.Its weird and i think the shifting from badboy to niceboy.Thats the part most guys struggle with.You need to combine both and balance it right.You have to be two faced.Rollercoaster.
Yes it is exactly like this. It is like this because women make it so damn difficult for men lol.
Thanx for sharing your views guys. I posted it quite a time ago. At that time I was figuring things out myself but now I believe I understand this now so gonna share some views that I found with time.

I agree with you but I don't think "two faced" is the right word for it. It's more appropriate to call it a "balance". When you are being a badboy/cocky funny, most guys easily step over the line and fall into the "over gamey", "creepy", "needy" zone as you may say it. There's a very fine line between being cocky funny and being needy. So you have to make sure you DON'T OVERDO this cocky funny or gamey attitude and maintain some elegancy in your personality.

Don't remember where I read it (I guess Carlos Xuma in an article) but this is how he described cocky funny:

When you act cocky, the girl will smile, then 2nd time she'll laugh, 3rd time she'll laugh even more. Then next time she'll just remain quiet. And then she'll stop responding (thinking that you're creeepy). While the guy keeps wondering "She was so into me. What the hell happened".

I hope I summarized it correctly. :)
Author:  dicemaster [ Mon Apr 18, 2016 10:08 pm ]
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Check yourself for bipolar.
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