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| Author: | Angelo Da Silva [ Sun Jan 11, 2015 3:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Too depended on girls reaction |
This one of my main sticking points during my interactions- Both in field and in text game. Most of the time i am present to the moment but for some reason i am always looking on whats the girls reaction is to go further. & the girls reaction usually affects my vibe as well whether its a good reaction or bad reaction. How do i break away from that and continuing being centred and not be affected by any outcome/reaction whether its good or bad?? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon Jan 12, 2015 6:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too depended on girls reaction |
Everyone is going to be affected by outcomes, the trick is to have enough options that you don't care too much about it. Now as far as reactions go you have no excuse for that via text. You should make sure you wait an hour between texts to compose yourself rather then loose you frame. I would just suggest you learn about framing interactions and being consistent within that frame so you wont get shaken when she takes you off your game. |
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| Author: | PatrickAnanda [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 1:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too depended on girls reaction |
Quote: This one of my main sticking points during my interactions- Both in field and in text game.
Hello Angelo,Most of the time i am present to the moment but for some reason i am always looking on whats the girls reaction is to go further. & the girls reaction usually affects my vibe as well whether its a good reaction or bad reaction. How do i break away from that and continuing being centred and not be affected by any outcome/reaction whether its good or bad?? Hope you're doing well. First, I'd like to comment on something: saying you are mostly present and then talking about how youre always looking for an outcome or reaction is contradictory. It's not your fault per-se. It's just interesting to see how the seduction community has distorted a spiritual concept. I suggest you find out what being present truly means. In any case, your problem is a common one. In fact it's almost the rule and not the exception. However, because most people are like this doesn't make it okay. It's called collective insanity. The reason you are behaving this way is because you depend on others for your self-worth. You depend on others for your self-worth because you do not know yourself. This is where it gets tricky, and where most people are not willing to venture. If you do however, I promise you it will be infinitely more rewarding than anything you can learn in this community. "On this path, effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure." - Bhagavad Gita Know yourself. With love and respect Mack Centered Man Project |
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| Author: | PatrickAnanda [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 1:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too depended on girls reaction |
Quote: Everyone is going to be affected by outcomes, the trick is to have enough options that you don't care too much about it.
No... Now as far as reactions go you have no excuse for that via text. You should make sure you wait an hour between texts to compose yourself rather then loose you frame. I would just suggest you learn about framing interactions and being consistent within that frame so you wont get shaken when she takes you off your game. Just no. |
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| Author: | Papagiorgio [ Mon Jan 19, 2015 8:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too depended on girls reaction |
always depend on yourself and never put the girl first |
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