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| Author: | Yarki [ Fri Dec 12, 2014 9:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Mid game texting |
Ok so this is one sticking point for me at the moment, I get a girls number ask her out and she agrees, but there is the 3-5 day waiting period before we can hangout. I always try to meet up with them asap but Im a busy dude. And relate conversation to when we meet to get things rolling but that can only last so long. I know its ideal to not say anything after the dates be established, but I want them invested enough they won't pass on the date when the actual day comes. Its happened a couple of times and usually pisses me off because I could be out doing something else or seeing another girl that day. Any texting ideas you guys have to get me through the pre date winter? |
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| Author: | dilik2005@yahoo.com [ Sat Dec 13, 2014 7:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Mid game texting |
Interesting, I am not a best person to know it, yet, I found it is useful to text anything but about date before the last hour of date. Usually me showing small amount of anxiety, several hours before actual date, reduces girls anxiety,I guess because she feels the same way and if both of you a little worried she will show a little confidence. I blew up several times texting too much about up coming event/date. It worked for me (dont know if it still works): I ask about her day, weather, what she is interested (1~2 txt on how she will be dressed, color style, so I can match her when we meet, yet I dont match since it will give more topics to talk and hug/touch/ her OUTFIT during date). Some times out of nowhere I txt her a) how many times I look at my phone and expect a txt from her. b) silance for a 10~15 min b) I should stop thinking abt her txt, since she doesnt txt that much. Curiously, after these txt most girls start texting more and getting comfortable with me faster. It helped me several times, not sure it works for you. PS. if you try it please respond how it go. Interesting to know. Thank you, sorry for ESL gramma/spelling |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Dec 13, 2014 8:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Mid game texting |
Quote: but there is the 3-5 day waiting period before we can hangout.
Then don't wait 5 days. Keep it warm. I know you're busy but how hard is it to text her a 'how are you today? x' every now and then?
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 2:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Mid game texting |
Are you waiting 5 days because you want to, or because you read somewhere that you should? You shouldn't... Unless you can't figure out your schedules and get together. Sooner the better. Waiting is silly. |
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