Change your habit of intent, and change your intent once she gains your attraction.
Go into each set with intent of curiosity. Your goals are to find out. You want to find out if this girl is attractive, beyond her looks. That means if she's a fat heifer, find out if there are things that are attractive about her. If she's a hot model, find out the same thing. Bring out of her, what connects you together as people. Find out what makes her tick. You will figure out that looks are just a small part of what makes a person attractive, regardless of sex. A good way to go about this is by examining your core values and probing for hers (or theirs.)
Once you are attracted, tell her why.
If you have the social power in a room, for example, if you're at a club and you have been acquainted with the majority of the room, or the majority of the important folks in the room, your presence will be invited. This is actually regardless of the status of the people you are associated with if you are acquainted with the abundance of the room.
But back to the subject, go in with intent of curiosity, and once she gains your attraction, qualify, escalate, and isolate.
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