PUA Forum :: Can't keep these new girls

So a problem I've run into, even before I was introduced to the PUA community, was F closing on a girl but not having it go anywhere. I didn't want these to develop into LTR so I mostly make it about the sex. However, I fuck these girls only 2-3 times each and then it's like they want nothing to do with me. I don't get it.

I think the problem is that I'm coming off too strong that I'm just using them solely for sex. Idk. I didn't think there was an issue with that this day and age. Note, I know what I'm doing when I'm with a girl and the sex is always great so it's not that.

TL;DR Can't keep girls I fuck to stick around and be fuck buddies, need assistance.

Author:	Jefe Jr. [ Mon Sep 22, 2014 2:48 am ]
Post subject:	Can't keep these new girls
So a problem I've run into, even before I was introduced to the PUA community, was F closing on a girl but not having it go anywhere. I didn't want these to develop into LTR so I mostly make it about the sex. However, I fuck these girls only 2-3 times each and then it's like they want nothing to do with me. I don't get it. I think the problem is that I'm coming off too strong that I'm just using them solely for sex. Idk. I didn't think there was an issue with that this day and age. Note, I know what I'm doing when I'm with a girl and the sex is always great so it's not that. TL;DR Can't keep girls I fuck to stick around and be fuck buddies, need assistance.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 24, 2014 5:42 pm ]
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Quote: Can't keep girls I fuck to stick around and be fuck buddies, need assistance. It sounds like your now becoming interested in more of a relationship. Fuck buddies is not that. Establish yourself as a fun, kind, and reliable adventurous person. Take some time to invest in them, their interests, and expectations. All while staying true to your own.

Author:	Jefe Jr. [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:15 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Can't keep girls I fuck to stick around and be fuck buddies, need assistance. It sounds like your now becoming interested in more of a relationship. Fuck buddies is not that. Establish yourself as a fun, kind, and reliable adventurous person. Take some time to invest in them, their interests, and expectations. All while staying true to your own. No not really looking for a relationship, more like steady sex. I'd prefer to fuck a girl more than just once or twice.

Author:	breedlove465 [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:23 pm ]
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Quote: So a problem I've run into, even before I was introduced to the PUA community, was F closing on a girl but not having it go anywhere. I didn't want these to develop into LTR so I mostly make it about the sex. However, I fuck these girls only 2-3 times each and then it's like they want nothing to do with me. I don't get it. I think the problem is that I'm coming off too strong that I'm just using them solely for sex. Idk. I didn't think there was an issue with that this day and age. Note, I know what I'm doing when I'm with a girl and the sex is always great so it's not that. TL;DR Can't keep girls I fuck to stick around and be fuck buddies, need assistance. In my experience, and I'm not sure what you're doing, but it's hard to find a girl that is completely up for nothing but a sexual relationship. Alot of guys hear "friends with benefits" and they think "great, sex with absolutely no investment". When in reality, the word friends is in the name. You do have to have some investment in the relationship. And it's a line that you toe. Not too much, not too little. After the second lay, are you only contacting them for sex after that? Try and invite them out for something fun, or invite her along to a party, as a friend. Have something that yall can do that doesn't involve sex. I guess you have to play it by ear, because sometimes you will ind a chick thats up for the meet up once a week and bang and thats it type thing, but it's rare.

Author:	puaninja [ Fri Oct 10, 2014 7:57 pm ]
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Girls will be curious as to what a guy is like romantically and sexually. They might see you as a conquest or just as a way to relieve their temporary needs, the same way guys view girls. Style said that you just have to make them curious enough to visit your tribe, they don't have to join it necessarily. When the girl sleeps with you she is as much wanting to know what you are like sexually as she is looking to get a better insight into what you have to offer her lifestyle-wise. Once you get that intimate with a girl you start opening up to her and she'll get to see what your life is really like. Let's face it, most guys aren't that interesting or awesome, so she soon realizes that you have nothing to offer that a million other guys couldn't also give her, and they lose interest.

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Author:	Jefe Jr. [ Sun Oct 12, 2014 11:23 pm ]
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That's good advice guys thanks. I guess I need to start investing in non sexual encounters with them as well.

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