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| Author: | driftwood [ Sat Sep 06, 2014 9:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Always losing it at the early mid game |
In the past, I used to have sets that could last a very long time. Nowadays, I feel like I get a much more interested response from girls but I am also losing the set all the time around ~10 minutes into the set. Please tell me what the heck I am doing wrong if you can figure it out. Went to club by myself. Opened a pretty blonde girl at the bar by herself. Opened with a compliment about her top. Said I like the geometrical patterns. She responded very positively and showed me how the top was actually a dress by pulling down the hem which stretched a good 10 inches. The flirting was good. Made a point to talk to her 2 friends briefly at the bar. Touched her briefly. I noticed that she was even ignoring her friends a little bit to talk to me. Friends walked away from the bar after they got their drink. She said “oh, now we’re going here...” I asked to go with and she said sure. She now had some other friends that arrived. There was some fluff talk between them and I talked to them a bit. Don't want to get cockblocked by the friends. She asked about where I lived. She didn't know about the various parts of town which surprised me. Some more banter. At one point, she had her arm around my waist for a bit which was quite forward for a girl. This was a very good sign of course. I put my arm on her shoulder and used the claw (by Tyler Durden) for a bit. I also put my arm around her waist at some point. I wasn’t very drunk but I’m have a hard time remembering the specific order of actions. I had been ignoring one of her friends for a bit so I turned and talked to her a little bit. Maybe only spoke 3-5 sentences. Turned back to the blonde and talked to her a bit but she was giving me the cold shoulder a bit. Some more of her friends had arrived and she started talking to them more. I felt a little excluded and tried talking to them more but it was a little harder to get a word in. I went and sat down when a table opened up because I had talked earlier about trying to get a table. Since she had so many friends there I thought doing this would be useful. I motioned for her to come sit down but she didn’t. Talked to a random guy next to me. The Blonde and her friends went off to dance but I didn’t want to follow her since I hadn’t been talking to them for a while. Later on, I ran into The Blonde again as they were leaving. I asked for her number but she was colder to me than before. I pressed but that just made her cooler towards me. She told me she was from Chicago (out of town) which I believe since she didn't seem to know much about the town we were currently in. I was thinking that the mistake I made must have been that I talked to her friend for too long. However, this seems like such a small thing it didn’t seem like it would be a problem. I wasn’t sure what the hell had happened. Later, I went to a friend's house where a get together was going on. I talked to an ex-con friend of mine who is pretty successful with the ladies about what happened. He told me right away that the problem was when I put my arm on her shoulder. It seems like a platonic gesture and that is not good. The implication is that performing even a single platonic gesture is a very bad thing to do. Why is this? Does it kill the romantic direction of the set? Does it evoke the wrong feelings? I didn’t even consider it to be a platonic gesture at all. It never even occurred to me that this was the problem. What do you guys think? Be dead honest because I can take it. I know it's tough to know what went wrong without having been there to see it but any insights you guys have would be much appreciated it. Thanks. |
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| Author: | threadstarter [ Sun Sep 07, 2014 10:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Always losing it at the early mid game |
Well that sucks and I can't figure it out either. I've seen videos with Lovedrop and Mystery where they condone arm around shoulder. And if that's platonic, what about the high 5s always being suggested??? |
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