People can be flaky for various reasons, but as long as she's actually texting you, you still have her attention and haven't completely lost her. She could just as easily not reply, or straight-up tell you she's lost interest for some reason.
Obviously trying to meet soon as possible is important, so the memory and feeling doesn't fade (despite trying to maintain it over the phone), but I don't think rescheduling is needy. You assume she's telling the truth, and if you both still like each other, then find a more suitable time to meet. Only call her out and address the situation if it becomes a recurring problem... but you still have to keep it playful and don't seem butthurt over it. If she's lost interest, it's never going to happen anyway. Might as well burn it to the ground, and you should have other women in your phone so it's not a huge loss and you're trying to pursue all your current potential leads.
I had a MILF recently accept catching up one evening with "okay, why not" as her attitude, after trying for a few weeks beforehand. I didn't really text anything fancy, it was something like "If you're free tonight, let's rendezvous and enjoy each others company". We banged that night. Granted, older women are a bit more straightforward and probably don't have as much male attention... but it's not over until it's over. Accept if she has plans or some other excuse, and keep trying until she actually says "not interested/I have a boyfriend/try your luck somewhere else/something else that suggests she was never really into you". But like I said, you should keep meeting other women and focus more on rewarding those you actually get along with.
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