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Author:  Mowgli [ Mon Mar 03, 2008 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  "Isolating Anxiety" Sticking Point

Hi everyone

I've reached a sticking point Isolating the target. I can approach and open fine, and can get IOIs most of the time. I once you've gotten about 3 IOIs from the target, it's probably a good idea to isolate and escalate.

But then a strange feeling overcomes me... the IOIs I've received, even though I'm aware of them, never seem enough (in my head) to warrant isolating the target. So I stay on the A2-A3 border until it either stales out or I go back to my friends or something. I guess its a kind of "isolating anxiety", probably arising because its usually the first stage that I express interest (and, therefore, risk rejection). Just a guess, I'll leave the evolutionary psychology to the Mystery Method guys... :)

So i was wondering if anyone knows any gambits / rountines / frames that may help me get past this problem?

Cheers

Author:  Majishion [ Tue Mar 04, 2008 12:01 am ]
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It seems like you are getting scared when she shows interest in you you are probably thinking i don't know if she is really interested in me, well you have to take chances to see if she is interested do some test step up the KINO! :lol: This is what I do say "let me see you hand" grab her and write something on it. say lets play a game im going to draw somthing on your hand and you have to guess what it is.. say the topic will be body parts draw to circles with dots in the middle the girl will most likely say boobs you can say No eye's you have a dirty mind! :lol: she will start laughing your in 8) do the kino

Author:  PrettyBoy41 [ Tue Mar 04, 2008 5:29 am ]
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just start with asking girls to dance when you should isolate. hopefully that will help you gain confidence, and then once you've done that a few times, try isolating and see how you feel.

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