My sticking point is Texting, Day2s. Dating.
I seem to do good at approaching, opening, even getting numbers. But I am terrible at texting, and dating. Girls are often just not responding after a certain amount of times. IDK if I am over texting, not acting interested enough, or what. This is a repeating problem. Its almost as if I'm boring them or something. I'm a decently good looking guy. I'm somwhat tall. And in good shape. So IDK what else it could be. I come from a smaller town, with not much to do other than go to the beach. I have a Bachelors degree, but I live with my Mom and Dad still and drive a crappy car. Perhaps those are the killers?
Here is my last Text/date:
Met a girl through some mutual lady friends. Ended up just asking her out through FB since my friends weren't getting the job done. She took a while to respond, but sounded excited and said, yeah lets hang out!
So I got her number, and we agreed to meet up at a local bar after some basic texting. Her answers were rather slow.
She never actually text the Friday we met up, but I ended up going to the bar with another female friend and met her there. Joined her table of 3 other of Her lady friends. (my lady friend ended up doing her own thing, so I don't think she thought I had a g/f or something.) We hung out for a bit, had a decent "group" convo. Nothing too fancy. They ended up leaving, I gave her a hug goodbye.
Later I text:
ME: Hey it was nice meeting you! We should hang out again.
Her: Yeah it was really nice meeting you too! For sure
Then in a few days, I asked if she wanted to go to my friends cottage not far away for memorial day weekend. She just didn't respond. At all...
I ended up saying something like, "Hey I understand if you don't want to, We barley know each other right?"
No Response....
few more days, in a moment of weakness, I said "Damn I can't seem to get a response from you ladies days."
Of course, No response. And I pretty much sealed my fait. Any ideas what I'm doing so wrong? Could it be the fact that I'm still in my home time and women are just weird and learly of locals?
gl bro