Hi everyone, basically I need some advice in this aspect of my game, I recently had a situation that sums up what usually happens with me and girls. Situations like this occured similarly with about 4 other girls(only one was not a virgin) I would admit I never had a relationship and am still a virgin.
First, let me give you some background to where she and I were at.
Ok so we met up in a party the beginning of March, she’s 20, everything went well, we continued to see each other, things went further and we had lots of physical contact but no sex(she’s a virgin, but I did finger her a couple times).
A couple times we had conversations about relationships, she told me she likes someone to be there for her.. blah blah blah,, I did say i understand her.. but I responded that I don’t like commitments(I always give a response like this) but after I said.. I would think about if I would want any sort of relationship and get back to her; we had this conversation in mid april, but I never did continue this conversation after.
So, I’m in university and exams came along, at the end of april, I just slowly stopped talking to her; we went from talking daily to once every 3 days now, because I didn’t really care to talk to her (I always try to remain emotionally unattached to girls so I tend to be this way), I actually cut our text conversations short; even in our last text conversation because I wanted to study. I didnt cut our conversations short with the other girls though, but conversations usually just dies down like this.
Just before her exams started(beginning of March) I texted her good luck, she didn’t reply, but it didn’t need a reply. A week after, I messaged her, Hey
, on facebook as I saw her online and she didn’t reply either. Then, the day after, I called her once, this is the first time she didn’t answer my call. So I waited a week and a half then called her again but this time I called twice. Similar reactions from girls also take placeSo, is there anything I should change in my attitude/behaviour? I'm pretty sure i'm good with the attraction and number closing phases of an interaction.