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| Author: | smitty3300 [ Mon May 05, 2014 6:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Letting her know that you're not planning to be "Boyfriended |
Okay, so I'm a newbie to "structured game." What I mean by that is I'm a newbie to game that has techniques and stuff that I've learned from forums, books, videos, etc. I've never had extreme problems with women until the last 5 years or so. Cold approach is nearly completely new to me (on a constant basis). I've only done it probably 10 times in my life completely outside my social circle, and maybe 50 times at parties with people that are slightly outside my social circle. Since a month ago I've started cold approach during the daytime (approximatey 60 or 70 approach and opens so far). Now I'm going on dates and instant dates. I've encountered many situations in my early 20's (I'm 29 now) where once it comes very close to sex, I get the "I don't fuck guys that I'm not in a relationship with" card. 9 times out of 10 I know that she often has flings, which make's that "striclty sex in a relationship" card utter bullshit. So here's my question... So how do I completely stay off her "possible boyfriend" list and only stay on her "fuck list" from beginning to end? Ps. PLEASE no answers from people who don't even do infield but only give advice on forums about how to deal with situations but don't even succeed in the real world and are living in an imaginary lie!!! |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Tue May 06, 2014 10:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Letting her know that you're not planning to be "Boyfrie |
It's hard to define this, but it's mostly the vibe you are sending. Women are no different from men in a sense that they have 3 main cathegories with a little overlap: guys they want to date, guys they only want to fuck, and guys in whom they have no interest at all. If you don't want to be her boyfriend, then you need to make yourself fall into the fuck buddy cathegory. The best advice I can give you is forget what you've learned about "high social status" and "DHV" because those are all things that keeps women around. What you want to communicate to women instead is that you are a sexual beast. Start sexualization early in the conversation. Be more direct, cut the bullshit. Escalate fearlessly and go for the lay the day you meet them. Don't wait for day 2s. Peace, In$tinct |
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