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Author:  RichGhostt [ Wed Mar 05, 2014 10:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Post-number close sticking point

Hey Guys, this has happened to me at least 5 times since i started out with this stuff.

So the problem is: I'll have a great interaction with a girl at a club or house party, often including a k-close, and have next to no problem getting her number. But the problem lies in texting them the next day, i tend to get cold responses. So how do I avoid that type of response, and bring back the tension and energy generated the night before?

Thanks boys

Author:  Xoved [ Sat Mar 08, 2014 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Post-number close sticking point

You're not playing your cards right. You think she's attracted to you because you kissed closed her, but she really isn't. Girls kiss you and give you their numbers like a piece of cake these days. Hell, I don't even consider a kiss as an accomplishment anymore. I know that for most people it is, but it isn't when you're used to girls.

On the other hand, it might just be that you're not getting lucky enough. We all pass through some points in our lives where we face obstacles. It's completely normal.

Author:  alxbkr [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 7:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Post-number close sticking point

Try calling instead of texting.
Everyone texts anyways. Stand out

Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sat Mar 15, 2014 3:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Post-number close sticking point

They give you their number to get rid of you because it seems you dudes on here don't take no for an answer and will pester the fuck out of them to get 'something' from them. When they get home they think what a fucking creep and I bet they never wanted to kiss you in the first place. Hope that answers your question. You all come across as fucking desperate to get laid and you're like every little fucking jerk in the night club,at the house party. You're all the fucking same and they're probably sick of it.

Author:  jaybob1990 [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 4:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Post-number close sticking point

wow dude, in no way is that constructive criticism....
I used to have this same problem, Adam Lyons has a good perspective on it. look up on youtube for his how to get a girl on tinder. The technique is explained on there.

Author:  schoolofromance [ Wed Mar 19, 2014 4:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Post-number close sticking point

Quote:
Try calling instead of texting.
Everyone texts anyways. Stand out
Call instead of texting. I highly recommend this.

In addition, it means you are stuck at attraction phase with most of the girls.

Attraction is a fleeting emotion, rather you should try your best to reach at least comfort phase of the emotional progression model so as to solidify the interaction.

Generally, upon reaching high level of attraction (lots of humour, high social value, etc) you can make out with a girl. However she will still be flakey if you have not at least reach somewhere towards the end point of qualification phase.

Godspeed.

Author:  GamesSN [ Wed Mar 19, 2014 4:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Post-number close sticking point

Wait a day.

No really, wait a day to message them if you're meeting them when there's drink involved. The last thing you want to see is a message from the drunk you met the night before. You're focused on recovery and not your merry, cheeky self capable of stringing together a witty or interesting conversation. It's going to be boring if you've drank.

Wait one day then message them.

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