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| Author: | snik [ Sat Jun 01, 2013 6:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Major sticking point take things more sexualy & kiss close |
Guys i think i have a big problem in taking things further, i still have problem to go for the kiss close. It had happened several times in the past and the same thing happened yesterday. I was out with i girl i knew for 1-2 months from a mutual friend and the 4-5 times we went out before was with other friends and yesterday was the first time we went alone. I know she likes me, i know she wants to be more than just friends but i am afraid that i may have screw up it yesterday. We were out for 4 hours, we talked i tried to kino her while we were sitting in a bar (some touches in her legs, her hands, her back) she was ok with that but i had trouble going pas the confort zone and take things more sexualy so i could move in and do a kiss close. There is this role play thing between us that we are a couple, the conversation went well, there were no akward pauses and she sheemed that she had a good time but i couldn't pull the trigger. My question is how i take it from now on? Should i start being more demanding about a second date soon? Should i be more open in my texts and tell her that i like her? I really woke up in a bad mood today because i am thinking i messed everything up (maybe it's only in my mind) and the kiss close is a standar thing to do in the first dates and now i am trying to find a way to recover. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Jun 01, 2013 8:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major sticking point take things more sexualy & kiss clo |
Quote: Guys i think i have a big problem in taking things further, i still have problem to go for the kiss close. It had happened several times in the past and the same thing happened yesterday.
You probably fucked up by not kissing her. She probably now thinks you are not a man. Onto the next one...
I was out with i girl i knew for 1-2 months from a mutual friend and the 4-5 times we went out before was with other friends and yesterday was the first time we went alone. I know she likes me, i know she wants to be more than just friends but i am afraid that i may have screw up it yesterday. We were out for 4 hours, we talked i tried to kino her while we were sitting in a bar (some touches in her legs, her hands, her back) she was ok with that but i had trouble going pas the confort zone and take things more sexualy so i could move in and do a kiss close. There is this role play thing between us that we are a couple, the conversation went well, there were no akward pauses and she sheemed that she had a good time but i couldn't pull the trigger. My question is how i take it from now on? Should i start being more demanding about a second date soon? Should i be more open in my texts and tell her that i like her? I really woke up in a bad mood today because i am thinking i messed everything up (maybe it's only in my mind) and the kiss close is a standar thing to do in the first dates and now i am trying to find a way to recover. |
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| Author: | juice man [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 11:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Major sticking point take things more sexualy & kiss clo |
DUDE, I am in this situation RIGHT NOW... I stepped back and analyzed my situation and I know what to do and I think you ought to do the same. I am going to try to meet up with her again, and if she does come out I am going straight for the K-Close, this girl gave me way too much IOI's and I pussied out. any who, like The Majikamethod said, I will move onto the next one if she doenst hangout or rejects my advances. PUA is all about getting out of your comfort zone. I think this why I am still AFC, I dont blast through k-close opportunities and i suggest you do the same. If nothing happens move on to the next and just leave her as friends so when you go out she will DHV you via preselection... best of luck |
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