PUA Forum :: Performance Anxiety.

Nah, I tried that, but I felt it did more harm than good.

It's got more to do with my expectations and state of mind than anything else. I was just so focused on being good enough, it made me real damn nervous. My throat got real dry and I even got some slight tremmors.

I still made both girls cum to the point of being dizzy mind you, and when I started getting a little more comfortable, I was able to get it up. But when the condom came on, I got soft again. I tried going in raw with the 2nd girl, but doggie style is a difficult position, especially since she was short, and the anxiety made me go soft before I got to go in...

Author:	ManlySpirit [ Sat May 25, 2013 2:21 am ]
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Get so nervous that it won't get up. It's happened thrice with TWO different girls now. What do?

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Sat May 25, 2013 4:28 am ]
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Quote: Get so nervous that it won't get up. It's happened thrice with TWO different girls now. What do? Stop watching porn. You have a tainted view of sex.... Change it.

Author:	slurp812 [ Sat May 25, 2013 4:46 am ]
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Yup, look around on here for "NO Fap"

Author:	ManlySpirit [ Sat May 25, 2013 2:28 pm ]
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Nah, I tried that, but I felt it did more harm than good. It's got more to do with my expectations and state of mind than anything else. I was just so focused on being good enough, it made me real damn nervous. My throat got real dry and I even got some slight tremmors. I still made both girls cum to the point of being dizzy mind you, and when I started getting a little more comfortable, I was able to get it up. But when the condom came on, I got soft again. I tried going in raw with the 2nd girl, but doggie style is a difficult position, especially since she was short, and the anxiety made me go soft before I got to go in...

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Sat May 25, 2013 3:51 pm ]
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Quote: Nah, I tried that, but I felt it did more harm than good. It's got more to do with my expectations and state of mind than anything else. I was just so focused on being good enough, it made me real damn nervous. My throat got real dry and I even got some slight tremmors. I still made both girls cum to the point of being dizzy mind you, and when I started getting a little more comfortable, I was able to get it up. But when the condom came on, I got soft again. I tried going in raw with the 2nd girl, but doggie style is a difficult position, especially since she was short, and the anxiety made me go soft before I got to go in... Drink more water... You were probably dehydrated.

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Author:	ManlySpirit [ Sat May 25, 2013 4:19 pm ]
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Quote: Drink more water... You were probably dehydrated. I wasn't, all three times we started getting busy after watching a movie, during which I drank a whole bottle of water. I actually had to stop making out and go to the bathroom because I had to take a piss a couple times. Also, you don't get anxiety tremors from dehydration.

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat May 25, 2013 4:26 pm ]
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Keep your fucking socks on.

Author:	chucks [ Mon May 27, 2013 11:41 pm ]
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You could always buy some Cialis from somewhere until you get your confidence back. If you use a low dose of like 5mg you should be good all day without hopefully having too many unexpected erections. Lol wear compression shorts so your raging erections can passably be thought of as just your massive, flaccid package. If you don't have access to that, try taking like 5-10 grams of the amino acid l-arginine (available on Amazon or any health food store) on an empty stomach about 2-3 hours before. I'll pop a spontaneous boner doing just that.

Author:	cashier [ Tue May 28, 2013 6:08 pm ]
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I had the same problem with my 2nd and third girl i banged. My advice. Get outta your head and chill the fuck out. "Normal" people sex is not a porno. Dont worry about your dick size, don't overwhelm yourself by trying to make HER cum. Shes probly just as nervous about her performance as you if not more. Just chill and enjoy the moment, and remember she wouldn't be there unless she liked you. Enjoy the vagina and bang her. If you cum before her, then eat her out or whatever till shes good. Trust me, no need to over-think it.

Author:	Beta King [ Tue Jun 18, 2013 4:39 pm ]
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Viagra (generic brands) helped me to get over PA initially - always works. That combined with 'no fap' and I've got no problems. Try it.

Author:	worldrunner [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 11:38 am ]
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Tell the girl: "If you make it work is all yours!"

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