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good results but needs help with situational openers
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Author:  Loveu18 [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 2:43 am ]
Post subject:  good results but needs help with situational openers
I have been in gaming for about 1.5 years and my result have improve since I really started putting to work what I know.. I have talked to about 8 girls in the last 2 months (not much but I don't really have time for gaming right now) all those girls were a success but the problem im having is that i like using situational openers n compliment tests but i can't always open a girl with an compliment cause sometimes anxianty kicks in and i can't force myself to open so i was wondering if anyone can help teach me to become more creative with situational openers cause i get stuck thinking of one to use which usually makes me not wanna do it anymore and i dont know how to make myself so things when i want.
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 12:25 pm ]
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I've had some revalations recently about pick up. Been watching a lot of youtube videos and getting WOMEN'S perspectives on what they find attractive in men and what are good approach/routine strategies. That being said, I think you are getting caught up too much in "how to open" the set. Even if you have the best/funniest/most awesome open, it's only going to get you so far. What's more important is being entertaining and congruent throughout the rest of your routine. The fact that you are unsure of yourself and nervous about your opening, it tells me that the women are seeing that as well, which then ruins your game.

I would go as far as to recommend just blurting out some random opening bit. And instead of focusing on choosing and delivering the opening properly, focus more on your body language, tone, and presence. These are the things women are analyzing. They honestly don't give a shit about whatever "test" or lame compliment you give them. And even if they do, that won't be enough to win them over. I think one of the worst things guys do is sit there and try to come up with one witty remark after another, but that just comes across as trying too hard to impress them, which women eventually will find unattractive.
Author:  eci [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 12:57 pm ]
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I would go as far as to recommend just blurting out some random opening bit.

well said, if its from a place of fun you gonna get far[/i]
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