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Author:  VFresh21 [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:13 am ]
Post subject:  Multiple Girls and The Issues
Im getting a lot of mixed signals from girls. On one end a lot of girls are asking me how I dont have a girlfriend saying im "hot as fuck and super nice". On the other I have not nailed down any fuck buddies yet.

I have been going about girls for the past month or so at many angles. I have been pretty aggressive in online dating and have started to get the hang of that. I have been going out to bars focusing on having a good time and talking to as many people that look interesting as possible. This has had some success lately. Then finally I have been much more social within my own circle of friends. I have been reaching out to much more people and have been focusing on "being friends" with girls. I think that this is my biggest sticking point because I have never been really friends with girls in the past to where I actually care about their personalities. It sounds pretty fucked up when I write it but its the truth. I am banking that my looks and personality will eventually work out for me and have me hooking up with the hot friends and then also their friends in the future when the time is right.

If any of you all would offer me some advice about how this all sounds and if im on the right track or not it would be really appreciated. I dont think I really have one specific sticking point here it is mainly tons of girls at different stages. For that sake I will briefly describe all of the girls I am talking to. This is pretty long so please feel free to read one or two and just comment on those.

My City:

Bartender: This girl is a solid 9. I have heard she is crazy and a total slut. Shes also blonde, short, and has nice nice tits. Sadly this is my kryptonite - crazy part included. This girl has seemed impossible as she has tons of guys constantly hitting on her on her facebook. I have tried messaging her a few times and then I finally saw her out at a bar she worked at and talked to her about it. She said shes got a boyfriend or some shit and that she meant to message me back. Sounds like bullshit to me. I told her I still wanted to be friends with her since she seems really cool and I got her number. She seemed like she was pretty receptive towards it from what I remember. I was hammered though so that memory doesnt have much credibility.

Plenty of Fish 1: This girls got 7 years on me. She is a solid 7 and is the party type. She seems fun and pretty normal despite seemingly being interested in someone much younger then her like me. My feeling is that most people that do online dating dont actually end up meeting up. She doesnt seem too intimidated but we are still working on a time to hang out. Her living 30 minutes away from me doenst help either.

Plenty of Fish 2: This girl is my age and we seem to have great chemistry. She's got two jobs though that make her whole life basically working and sleeping. I have a feeling this one could turn into a nice friend where she is tired from work and wants me to come sleep with her and fuck and not have much commitment until she quits her one job. That would be pretty convenient although I definitely would like to get to know her more if she can free up her schedule more.

Singer: This girl is a good 7 also. She is ridiculously cool and the type of girl that I would definitely be friends with. She is working on becoming a singer and from what it seems is doing a pretty good job at breaking through. We are both incredibly busy people though so it is almost impossible for us to come up with a time that works for both of us to meet. That is when we are both in town at the same time too. We have pretty good chemistry also so I would really like to hang out with her more but the situation is difficult.

My college town: (I do not live her any longer but I visit here a lot)

Raver: This girl seems pretty awesome. She is the party type and a solid 8. This girl i seem to have GREAT chemistry with and is the one who the "hot as fuck...." quote was from. I have a few years on her so it makes sense that she would look up to me. I have never been looked up to like that though from girls. She wants to visit me in my city since we didnt get to hang out while I was over there. I am confused as to why we didnt though because if she likes me as much as she said I would have expected her to hang out. She drove in from a neighboring city though for the parties and had a group of friends so maybe she didnt want to ditch them or was talking to another guy. I dont know. But she seems pretty serious about coming to visit me.


Old Friend: There is a girl who ive known for years and have always wanted to get with. I never have had the balls to in the past but every time im in my college town I will hang out with her. I have taken her out on a movie date and she seems like she likes me too. We have not done anything yet though and she blows me off a lot. She has tons of guys constantly chasing her so I am pretty positive that it is them that are getting prioritized over me. She is a sketchy girl though so I really dont know.


There are a few more but those are the major ones. What do you all suggest for me to get one of them (preferably in my town) to a consistent fuck buddy status? I really dont want to be tied down with a girlfriend although it wouldnt be too bad at this point while i am so busy. I am not having sex though so I am getting my head fucked up by craving it too bad. I just want a girl im decently attracted to that I have good sexual chemistry with. I have a feeling it will come soon If I am patient (I am not a patient person at all. This makes me come off desperate with my game a lot which sucks). What are your thoughts?

I just realized after writing this that all of these girls I have not even made out with yet. I have a few others that I could but I am really not attracted to them and would not want to bring them around my friends as fucked up as that sounds. These are the ones I want to turn into fuck buddies.


Thanks in advance.
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