This Is for all other newbies like myself, when ur having a conversation a good way to keep the convo going is to shut up n listen to her last sentence. Ex: last night me n my mom had taco from taco bell for dinner, it was amazing"
if u had been listening u will notice that she just brought up 3 different cOnversation topic. 1 she said me n my mom, which could mean, she's a family kinda person or her family is split up, u could ask " if she's a grown up, u can tell that family means something to her, u can also comment something like " sounds like u an her mom have a great relationship" or u can neg " mama's girl
. 2 she likes tacos, or she likes the place taco bell. I usually use this to connect, it up to u, u can even listen to the conversation ur having n pick up more things to talk about by just listening, it's a good skill to learn.
Like I said I'm new, but this is something that works for me really well, the problem for me is that I'm not sure how to move on to something mote sexual, I will like some help with that.. Ps: watching pickup videos is another good way to get better.