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| Author: | xyz247 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 9:46 pm ] |
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I recently split with my girlfriend of 2 years and i've been ready this stuff for a while now. I really wanting to master PUA but I just can't seem to get the ball rolling. When im home i have lines to say but as soon as im in a club or out I totally freeze up and dont know what to say. I make excuses as to why I shouldn't open a set. For example 'the music is to loud'. Does anybody have any pointers or tips that could help me? |
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| Author: | Matrimcauthon77 [ Wed May 02, 2012 5:58 pm ] |
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Unfortunately, the best advice is that the only way to do it is to do it. If you absolutely can't make yourself open your first set, this isn't for you. But I promise you can, and here a few ways to get your feet wet without jumping in all at once. Start off in other places--start talking to women in the grocery store, for instance. Go to a mall and talk to a few groups of women there, where there is no music. But the beauty of a club is that you can mess up all night and you'll still have more women right around the corner, so once you open a few sets you start to realize that each individual set doesn't mean much to you. That's when the ball really starts rolling. You can also walk around the club and just clink glasses with people for at least one round. Ask if they're having a good time, and move on quick. That will at least get you used to getting their attention, and you're not attached to any specific outcome. And one last that I know people like is called "bombing openers." Go into a set with the intention of failing and say something ridiculous. Get rejected on purpose, and then having it happen later won't be as big of a deal. But like I said in the beginning. You have to make yourself go out there. Do not accept any excuses from yourself when the time comes--you WILL open the next set you see, whether you like it or not. |
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| Author: | Soncheese [ Wed May 02, 2012 8:55 pm ] |
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Consider trying the 3 second rule I know its difficult but its one of those things that you just need to understand that if you dont approach your never going to get her and that leaves the door for some other guy too And you dont want that happening lol  Soncheese x |
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