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| Author: | Sticksmith [ Sun Apr 01, 2012 5:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Too much at stake |
I broke up with my girlfriend over 2 months ago now. Obviously rocking the single life was and still is my main priority. Not looking for anything serious. I haven't slept with anyone since, I've been going out, having good times with my friends and girls and working on myself, happiness comes from within and all that. Anyway, to the point. My aim is to get laid. Once I sleep with someone attractive I'm going to feel great. It feels like there's a lot at stake. I have been trying (not too hard mind, I know how it goes) but progress is slow. I don't miss my girlfriend. I just want to feel like I've moved on in all aspects, I guess I want to feel like a REAL stud like I used to. So obviously it means a lot to me in terms of confidence, happiness, satisfaction, etc And I think, that even if I don't consciously notice myself behaving differently because of it, that on some level I'm screwing up opportunities to get laid. Hence the slow progress.. To sum it up, apart from 'stop thinking about it too much', how do I stop the fact I'm dying for that BUZZ you get from sexual success, affecting my mindset? |
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| Author: | Didier [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 10:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too much at stake |
Quote: My aim is to get laid. Once I sleep with someone attractive I'm going to feel great. It feels like there's a lot at stake. I have been trying (not too hard mind, I know how it goes) but progress is slow.
Amen, exact same problem here. It looks like the more I try to advance, (more number closing, more cold approaches) The more I screw up oppurtunities. I'm thinking it's because the women sense I am eager but just not experienced enough to close. I guess I should either play 'hard to get' or 'confidence all the way' but not something in between. I'm getting great IOI's since I started learning about Gambler's DHV method. I'm getting better, but the progress is so slow. I think congruency is the problem here. Anyone has tips for that?I don't miss my girlfriend. I just want to feel like I've moved on in all aspects, I guess I want to feel like a REAL stud like I used to. So obviously it means a lot to me in terms of confidence, happiness, satisfaction, etc And I think, that even if I don't consciously notice myself behaving differently because of it, that on some level I'm screwing up opportunities to get laid. Hence the slow progress.. To sum it up, apart from 'stop thinking about it too much', how do I stop the fact I'm dying for that BUZZ you get from sexual success, affecting my mindset? I used to be an asshole and be very popular. Had lots of confidence, now that I'm getting more mature it all seems much harder. I'm guessing cause I care too much about what people think of me. |
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| Author: | Chinopants [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 2:33 pm ] |
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Well Paul's grandmother said the best way to get over some body is to get under some body. Go find your self an average chick that would love a wild crazy fuck. Pick up some extra curvy girl for a good time. That way your not to vested and she gets to fuck a bit. Be nice and open to that person., But when it rains it pours to toss another proverb in to the post. Dry spells happen but the opposite is true too. I think it cuz when people are getting laid they are happy and happy people attract more people. Get your dick wet man any way you can and after the flood gates open for you then ya you can be picky. Oh an one more for the road. Fat girls are like Mopeds they are a lot of fun to ride until your friends see you on one. |
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