I've managed to hook up with this incredible, easy-going HB8 and was able to f-close at the end of an awesome serendipitous evening. I must admit that she's an old friend, but still. I was pretty amazed that I was able to pull it off. Before getting into the PU scene she never gave me the slightest hint of being interested but maybe that's because I didn't know what to look for.
My problem: what to do after the f-close? Damn, there's so much useful stuff to find about what to do to get to the f-close, but there's no after-guide. It's like trying to get rich and actually succeeding: what to do next? Life seems so boring now...
...not really. It's awesome!
Anyway, here's how I feel about it: I don't feel like having a relationship right now (although I really like her), but I don't want to ruin my chances of being able to make a bootycall either (does that sound harsh?). She's sent me a message to say that she had an awesome evening and that she should try to live "more serendipitously" which seemed like a big indicator that she wants to do it again? I haven't replied yet because I don't want to seem like an AFC.
Is there a way to put her in the LJBFWAOBFN-zone (Let Just Be Friends With An Occasional Booty Call For Now) or should I just try to get over it and and all the "plenty of fish in the sea" crap before this turns into a dramatical case of oneitis?
And to all the beginning PUA's out there: focus on KINO! It does WONDERS! Without the kino your lines/theories are worthless, no matter how good they are.
Zoo.
