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| Author: | Evilx [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | kiss-closing sticking point |
So,guys, I've been working on my game and already solved to a "working" degree most of my game aspects (opening,dhvs,neging,compliments...),but can't close it. Just to ilustrate it,I'm going to do a quick report of the last time it happened: Yesterday I was in a college party when I saw a cool girl with a girl my friend was talking to,so initialy I went there just to wing him and talked to the girl, so,it turned out that we were doing great, I separated her from her friend to get a drink and then started my routine on her. Absolutely everything went more right than I'd ever expected it to be (since I started to go into PUA,this was the farthest I've ever been), she was giving all the IOIs I could count,she was smiling to me in a way that was saying "kiss me now", had absolutely no problems with kino, it was the perfect oportunity... so there we were for about 2 hours and I couldn't close it, I froze, I realy couldn't think of any way to do it (except for the triangle thing,don't know if lack of practice or I had no idea of how to go after the looks or I done it wrong, so I did it about 3 times to a point that I tought it was starting to be creepy,so droped it). So, I decided to throw more DHVs on her and took her to grab a drink and talk to some friends who would tell her some DHV stories,wich they did splendidly. But while she was there talking with me and my friends,another guy aproched her, said a few things and she went with him without saying a thing to me. ot quite disapointed about her, I'm with myself because I was weak and could not close her, but the fact is that I think I wasn't mentaly prepared and never actualy had a tought of how would I do it, I think I never tought that I would go that far,so never realy tought about it. So,guys, any advices of how to overcome it? |
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| Author: | doclift [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 6:54 am ] |
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I always instruct guys to adapt natural game when it comes to kissing a girl. Get your IOI's, phase shift, and just kiss her. If in your mind you believe that you should be kissing her, then you need to be doing exactly that. Worst case scenario, you mis-calibrated and she turns her cheek towards you. In that case you just laugh about it, roll off, and push on through kino escalation. You should learn some kiss-close routines to fall back on just for the sake of having in your arsenal. There are a bunch of them so just look them up. I'm at the point in my game now where I never use a kiss routine. I just lean in and do it like it's my job to do so. Quit fearing rejection and do it. Remain confident and go in for the kill. |
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