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| Author: | Sonicvega [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 10:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Boyfriend comes after I open sticking point. |
Okay so here is what happened. I was at a grocery store day gaming having a good time . I saw this girl by the shampoos smelling stuff. I went up and told her I had to approve her shampoo smell as well before she purchased it . We talked for like 5 minutes and everything was fine. I was just about to number close and then bam her bf comes out of nowhere . I made some idle chit chat addressed him and didnt number close. Normally I have no problems with boyfriends like if I see a girl at the club with one I still approach or during the day ill talk to him first . But I hate this caught with my hand in the cookie jar feeling .Any tips or advice how to deal with either closing or dealing with a situation like this? |
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| Author: | doclift [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 4:54 pm ] |
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I had a similar thing happen to me last month. I met this girl at a party last year and threw some game at her but didn't get the digits because I was crazy pressed for time and was working on another set there. When I saw the girl at my work a year later, I threw every ounce of game I had at her. Landed the number and a day 2. She invited me to see her bartend at a little country bar (think coyote ugly). I took a wing and we owned the venue. A few days later, I was on that part of town and decided to swing into the bar to stroke the flames I made with some of the other female bartenders. To my surprise, my target was working, so I went in high energy. Picked her up in an intense hug and swung her around me while I kissed her neck. It literally happened in matter of seconds. There were all of 6 people in this little country bar. Unknowingly to me, the guy sitting at the bar closest to me was her boyfriend. Next to him was his very large best friend. The second I set her down, I knew by the look in her eye that something was wrong. So without any hesitation, I grabbed the other female bartender that was working (who I talked to last time) and pulled her in for a long tight hug (partly to create a little jealousy plot action, partly to buy myself some time). I rolled off ("ok that's all you get") and saw my target standing next to the guy. I knew she had a boyfriend before walking in and at this time, assumed the worst. I walked up to the guy, shook the shit out of his hand and then did the same to his friend. Confident eye contact and a smile. Before he could open his mouth, I started joking with him and his friend. By the time I started busting out some magic for the other bartender, he was speechless. When I started a mentalism routine on his girlfriend, the guy was blown away. The guy buys me a drink and says to me, Boyfriend: "man, you must get laid like a rockstar." Me: "I should apologize for the amount of female attention I've had in my life. I'm not going to, but I should" (thank you Mystery) Boyfriend: "If I could do that shit, I'd be banging all kinds of sluts" (what a tool) Me: "I bet you would." Smile and turn away from him now facing the bar "bartender! Can I get a drink??? It's flowing like molasses in here." Later on in the night, my target pulls me aside and sets up a day 3 with me. Ten minutes after that, her boyfriend pulls me aside and wants to be my friend and go to Austin with me to see me work a crowd lol. I kissed both of my bartenders on the cheek and walked out of there while the buying temperature was still hot like a fucking boss. When you get caught like you did, remain in frame and shake the guys hand. Stay confident and then game the guy like you would in any other set. I gamed this girl I met at a liquor store and her boyfriend walked up on me just like you mentioned. I befriended the guy, we swapped numbers, and then the 3 of us hung out. I ended up thinking the guy was pretty cool and the girl was into me but committed. Long story short, she literally handed me one of her hot single friends... on two different occasions. You don't always get the outcome that you want, but if you barrel through and play to win, you do exactly that. |
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| Author: | Sonicvega [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 10:20 pm ] |
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Thanks man.Great advice. In an odd way I wanna face this situation again so I can calibrate my game into dealing with this. |
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| Author: | doclift [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:17 pm ] |
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Approach women at venues where they are likely to be in committed relationships. Try out places like bed bath beyond, pier 1, lowes/home depot, etc. You might even pull a few legit sets from it, and when you do, I'd love to see a field report. |
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| Author: | Sonicvega [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 5:57 pm ] |
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Looks like I will be at the Bed Bath and Beyond this week . Hopefully ill find the Beyond. hahahah |
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