PUA Forum :: I want to F-close my ex bad!!

So I havent touched my ex in almost three years and without a doubt she was the best Ive ever had. Even after F-closing over 50 women since then. Make no mistake this is a sticking point, I have rapport and can make her smile, laugh and enjoy her time with me. But as soon as I say anything about her body, how much I miss her, blah, blah, blah, she clams up like she never has in our almost decade long relationship. She may be getting shtuped by some other d-bag but that was never an issue before. I also have no intention of getting back together with her but getting her face down/ass up is all I can think of when Im with other women.
What can I do to swing this my way and how can I initiate physical contact without her shutting down?

Author:	mrrtnw [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:13 pm ]
Post subject:	I want to F-close my ex bad!!
So I havent touched my ex in almost three years and without a doubt she was the best Ive ever had. Even after F-closing over 50 women since then. Make no mistake this is a sticking point, I have rapport and can make her smile, laugh and enjoy her time with me. But as soon as I say anything about her body, how much I miss her, blah, blah, blah, she clams up like she never has in our almost decade long relationship. She may be getting shtuped by some other d-bag but that was never an issue before. I also have no intention of getting back together with her but getting her face down/ass up is all I can think of when Im with other women. What can I do to swing this my way and how can I initiate physical contact without her shutting down?

Author:	Wolfwoodd [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:32 pm ]
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Quote: But as soon as I say anything about her body, how much I miss her... That's really not something you want to verbalize. That could mean your approach is a little off. However, there's really not a lot of information to work with here. There are always better girls, they just take more time to find as your standards get higher. That's life. -Wolf

Author:	mrrtnw [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:43 pm ]
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Yeah, I exhausted my non-verbal with her tho. I see her about three times a week and it is just my challenge now to get her again. I dont typically get hung up on any one woman but for some reason... Maybe I need new non-verbal?

Author:	SexAddict911 [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 8:52 pm ]
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Quote: So I havent touched my ex in almost three years and without a doubt she was the best Ive ever had. Even after F-closing over 50 women since then. Make no mistake this is a sticking point, I have rapport and can make her smile, laugh and enjoy her time with me. But as soon as I say anything about her body, how much I miss her, blah, blah, blah, she clams up like she never has in our almost decade long relationship. She may be getting shtuped by some other d-bag but that was never an issue before. I also have no intention of getting back together with her but getting her face down/ass up is all I can think of when Im with other women. What can I do to swing this my way and how can I initiate physical contact without her shutting down? Do not associate the relationship with sex. You can't bring up any other association with the relationship. Don't bring up the past at all. You have to come out and tell her, you want to fuck her. Make it purely sexual. If it were me, I would tell her that you have had a couple of naughty dreams about her lately they were so vivid. Then during the conversation tell her she was one of the best if not the best you've ever had. Plant the seed. Then keep it going. Do it subtle at first if you must. Get her to accept it. But eventually get to a point where you are telling her that you have actually thought about your dream and pleased yourself. Then tell her you want to fuck her. Tell her, you are not looking to get back with her, or anything like that. < Be strong on emphasizing that point. Keep it purely sexual. After your made your point, lighten up again. From this point on keep it none verbal, unless she is already right into it. Here's the thing. Even if she brushes it off and says no. She knows you enough to not get offended, and there is a good chance she will take it as a compliment. So nothing will change for the worst. But the seed will be planted in her head. You still make her laugh, and enjoy each others company, the rest will be non verbal. Get her out for drinks one night and bring it up again.

Author:	mrrtnw [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 9:00 pm ]
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Good feedback SA911. That may just be what I need. Thanks buddy.

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