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Author:  Zelda [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  how to invite a girl round yours
I'm really stuck on this... I get really close to a girl, but I dunno how to make that move to suggest going back to mine... I'm also scared of making it too obvious.
(I'm at uni, living in a house with other people - just in case you want a bit more info... if they invite me round theirs then great, but I don't know how to make them come round mine)

Thanks
Author:  pumpington [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:41 pm ]
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that is your problem, you want to make it obvious and have it be mutual,
the frame around what you are doing is ''we are going to go have sex''
she should be well aware of your intentions, (you are not just indirectly going to start a conversation, never show intent, then get enough compliance to get her to leave with you for some random reason, then SURPRISE your cock comes out... doesn't work like that)
how ever the thread should offer her probable deniability (NOT THE FRAME it should be implied to her already through your actions that she is going to be having sex with you if she leaves with you),

if you say,

''hey I got drinks back at my place, it's getting late, lets get out of here''

she knows she isn't going back to your place for drinks, and if she isn't interested she will put up a big fight, you can keep trying to see if she was just testing you, but really you just want to throw it out there and give her an excuse just so she doesn't feel slutty about it

and give it a few attempts, if you are in a bar spend a good half an hour getting to know a girl and if it seems like it is going well try to get her home, there are tons of things you can say, sell your place to her, you can tell her

-have drinks at my house
-have a movie I want to show you
-have a song I want to show you
-you have to see my home theatre system
-you have to see my amazing aquarium
-my shoe collection

even if you tell her you have a home theatre system and all you have is an 18 inch tv, what ever, you are just looking for an excuse to go to your house so she doesn't feel slutty about what is about to go down

if she throws out objections, you can handle them illogically, or just agree then move on

her:OK, BUT WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX TONIGHT

no it's ok, I told you girl... hd tv... 400 channels, it is amazing
no it's ok, my shoes will blow you away, prepare to be charmed to the maximum extreme
I see, well, I don't know about that... im pretty charming
ok, we are two adults, we don't have to do anything we are not comfortable with
if you say so


etc. etc., you just want to get an excuse to get her to leave with you, if she will be alone with you, you screened her well for logistics, she responds well to touch, then you are probably pretty good to go, after that you just need to compliance for her to leave with you

some girls no matter what you do, will just not give you that compliance, just take their number, and try for it another day, focus on the connection and the compliance you have from her

GOOD LUCK
Author:  CASANOVA J019 [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 10:26 pm ]
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I always use the plausible deniablitly or however you spell it. I am at uni to and live with 7 other people but don't let that worry you. On a night out, I would say you want to come back to mine there's an after party going down and you should totally come, will be a good time. This is bs there is never gonna be an after party, but then she comes over, i acted all surprised and say oh well fuck it lets watch a film, 2mins into film and were making out and kino etc, and job done.
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