a few ideas for you man,
-be more honest for why you are approaching, right away from that start let them know it is a romantic interest, that way girls that are not interested/want to waste time, just get weeded out, you get a quick rejection and can move onto other girls, rather then wasting your time and getting a rejection that comes way later rather then sooner (the flake), start by telling them you approached them because you found them attractive and wanted to meet them (or some variation)
-instead of asking for numbers, ask for dates, drop an excuse for why you have to leave and give a compliment before you lay it out, the more specific you are with the date the better, it will weed out the interested girls from the wastes of time, and don't do that YOU MUST COME, alpha shit, just say, you seem really cool, I'D love to take you out to this great blah blah blah place on Xday, or, you're really interesting to talk to, I can't believe I met you at Xplace so randomly like this, I'd love to see you again on Xday again, then if she agrees, get her number, and continue talking to her, don't run off victorious like a dog who just got his bone, stay there talking to her for a few minutes after you got the number, then remind her of your excuse for why you have to go, then say I'll text/call you before Xday (what ever you are going to do, text or call)
-don't be needy and desparate, you can text her right away after you get the number just to carry the momentum and continue the conversation over text if you want to get to know her a bit better, but really, not that needed if you spent enough time talking to her and it seemed solid that she was interested in a date, and she understands the romantic context to the meetup, just don't be a weirdo, don't be a stalker, if a girl does not answer a text, give it at the very least, 24 hours before you send a second one, if she flakes she flakes, give her 3 chances after getting her number to go one a date, after that, put her on the backburner as a girl you text to practise with and don't invite her out very often, go approach new girls and try for dates,
-do more approaching, numbers from girls who were not interested don't mean very much (girls will often give out their numbers to anyone), kiss closing off the approach doesn't mean to much either, what matters is how interested in you she is, and how much a connection you formed, what did you do that will leave an impression in her mind, and how much does she like you, you want her to remember you, just try to get her to talk about herself and get to know her, find out some interesting things about her, if you want her to ''like you'' or be ''emotionally attracted'', just bring some fun to her and add value to the conversation (bring some element to the conversation that causes positive emotions), the less she has to work at bringing something to the conversation the more she will be willing to invest (also how physically attractive she finds you, will effect this)
don't give up, try to chill out a bit more, don't call girls first thing in the mourning, don't harass them to come out with you, just let it be, it is easier to go cold approach another girl then try to pressure a girl into doing anything, it won't work like that, if she is showing dis-interest, back off more, then just chat them up a bit more, then try again later, 3 flakes in a row is a good sign she is waste of time, and should only be used for practise
basically there are a few things during a daytime cold approach you want to establish
-you have a romantic interest in her and she is aware of this
-you want to find out a few things about her that make her worth going on a date with, and let her know that you like those things about her
-you want to make sure she doesn't possess qualities you don't want in a girl (she isn't crazy or a stalker etc.)
-confirm logistics
when you have those things, there is no reason to linger in set anymore, unless you plan to try and make out with her, and try to get her back to your house,
also, try to avoid talking about yourself if you can help it, it's better to get her investing, then to invest yourself, don't just randomly dhv unless there is a purpose behind it (it relates to something or serves a purpose in the set, beyond ''just doing it, to do it'', make sure it is related to a thread or is going to server a purpose)
GOOD LUCK
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