hey man thats natural, I experienced this and got annoyed early on as i got womens numbers and organised dates then they would flake.
Don't get jaded or you will shoot yourself in the foot hehe
instead is a good time to take a break indulge yourself, do something fun you enjoy, hang out with friends, get recharged then ask yourself what can i learn / change / improve to increase my chances.
maybe change your approach. if you are focused on indirect night game, try direct day game or vise versa
remember it should be fun and playful!
