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| Author: | TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 7:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Bringing up something that your self conscious before sex |
Honestly this isnt too much of a sticking point as i've had sex, but i brought it up just before sex and it caused an awkward moment. I had a deformed sternum that I've had surgery on. it that made it not stick out so much. Its still somewhat noticeable, more so because of the 2 inch scar in the middle of my chest. I would rather bring it up earlier in the night, but I dont know when and how to word it. Any ideas? |
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| Author: | PurpleSmash [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 8:09 am ] |
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What has happened when you didn't bring it up? It seems to me that the earlier you bring it up, the faster it becomes a problem. Just avoid certain positions if you're self-conscious about your chest. I doubt very much that the girl will care at all when you're pounding her doggy style. |
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| Author: | TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 8:40 am ] |
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I've never tried that, that is a good point though. Although i've havent brought it up before the clothes started coming off either. I'm new to this stuff, and only had 2 successful lays since i started. So i'm still inexperienced. |
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| Author: | $hane [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 8:55 am ] |
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I know the feeling of being self conscious. i have a a 6 inch scar on the left side of my pelves and i have a 6 inch Y shaped scar on my face. and i can honestly tell you if the girl is sleeping with you its cause she wants you not cause what "flaws" you might have. girls dig scars. just dont say anything unless she asks and when she does just tell a brief reason why you have it. hope this helps |
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| Author: | Mr Freeze [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Don't worry too much about it |
Don't worry too much about it. Most people are self conscious about their bodies for one reason or another. Especially women. Chances are that she's wondering how you'll react once she starts taking her clothes off. Even if she's really hot, she probably thinks one of her tits are slightly saggy or something. It's a vulnerable moment for everyone. You'll get more comfortable in your own skin as you get older, and you'll get more comfortable getting naked with another person as you do it more. So do it lots! Lots and lots of practice and you'll give less of a fuck about that lump in your chest. |
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