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Author:  bounty_killa [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 4:54 am ]
Post subject:  Leaving for university - go after girls before I do?
Hello everyone. I'm 19 and I'm leaving for university in England in September. But for now I'm enrolled at a local university.

My question to you all is, does it make sense to even try going after girls that I'm interested in - in terms of a relationship. Since I began my year here I've gotten close to several girls who all seemed really into me, but then at one point or another began pulling away for no apparent reason. Do they all know that its a dead end road and won't be up for a relationship with a guy that's leaving in the near future?
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 3:02 pm ]
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What was stopping you from hooking up with these girls when they seemed into you?

-Wolf
Author:  bounty_killa [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 4:45 pm ]
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Man I actually wanted a relationship with any one of these chicks. They were all really smart and I knew them all a little before (high school circles). These girls were very conservative. But now I realized they got fedup with my lack of escalation?

I should mention of of them friendzoned me when I revealed I had feelings for her. :S
Author:  Blackjaq [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 5:13 pm ]
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Well you are 19 years old so there will be a lot of women coming in and out of your life, especially considering the fact that you will be hitting university soon. Nothing is going to stop you from building a lot of attraction with your girl friends and just keeping contact with them. That way, next time they are in town, they can give you a ring and you can take it from there.

Dont worry too much about relationships right now, rather spend that time improving on your game.

Other than that, enjoy university. Its going to be a blast.
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 5:31 pm ]
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But now I realized they got fedup with my lack of escalation?
I think you hit the nail on the head. Also, don't verbalize your feelings for female friends. Instead, just tease them, maintain a sexual vibe, and physically escalate. Actions speak louder than words (and are much more effective).

-Wolf

/You may want to google "Vin DeCarlo's escalation ladder"
Author:  bounty_killa [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 8:39 pm ]
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don't verbalize your feelings for female friends
I think that was my biggest mistake, and I made it with almost every female I was interested in. For example, I did manage to get this chick (3 years older than me) in my bed and we got to fooling around. Evidently I don't have much experience with girls, and I never got this close to sex. Like an idiot I stopped her and asked her what was really going on...if she was interested in me. :x She claimed she wasn't, but stayed for awhile and talked about how we're just friends.

I should go to hell for this.lol
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