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Hello boys, I have known this girl for a few years. We even dated once 3 years ago. Recently I hung out with her and when we each left each other we sexted all weekend. She agreed it would be a brillant idea to give me a blowjob on monday as I convinced her she owned me a favor. On monday me and her were alone and started making out. Things were getting kinda hot when she stopped and said that she couldn't go on. After I pushed for a reason why she told me that her bestfriend had admitted to her that she had a thing for me.
This caught me off guard and the rest of the interaction went downhill. I had to give up before it became like I was needy (im not but I didnt want to keep insisting for this bj). Later on that night she sent me a pic of her (no clothes) and said thats all she could do in replace of a bj (not nearly as good). Im not sure what to do, I don't really have much interest in her friend.
Go above and beyond to show her you don't care about her friend and all the reasons why you like her so much. Do something very sweet for your lady, tell her how you don't care about her friend, go overboard telling her, then make your move. It'll work. This caught me off guard and the rest of the interaction went downhill. I had to give up before it became like I was needy (im not but I didnt want to keep insisting for this bj). Later on that night she sent me a pic of her (no clothes) and said thats all she could do in replace of a bj (not nearly as good). Im not sure what to do, I don't really have much interest in her friend.
Women like men just want to be assured of their place in the relationship and how you feel about them. This goes on over and over throughout the relationship of this justification for why you are attracted to her.