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Author:  gunzblazing [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:47 am ]
Post subject:  somewhat of a sticking point

setting: The girls are all met in a college/uni
OK what i have noticed is that, I end up getting a girls bbm or whatever, and we slowly start talking and before you know it by the 2nd day we're talking A LOT, and about all kinds of things. The problem is by the 3rd day it starts to die real quick.

This is what I think is happening, they just want something new so they talk to me a lot, but if we talk to much they are going to get bored. These bbm conversations can go for hours... it sounds bad already.

Where do you think im going wrong? i have killed off at least 4 possible chances in the last 2 weeks. its just a cycle.
i currently have one thats on the 3rd day, (dying if not dead). I think theres hope for this 1 if i act now lol, but what do you think im doing wrong

Author:  Logic Savvy [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 9:08 am ]
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I get this sometimes.
Honestly, it's talking to the girls TOO MUCH in one sitting.
You gotta let them get to know you bit-by-bit, not all at once.
Either that, or you just aren't that exciting :P

Author:  gunzblazing [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 3:27 pm ]
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oh good to know it wasnt just me in these situtations.
You think theres any hope for the last girl, its day 4. usually its dead by now.
I feel theres are 2 options
a) wait for her to text me, and try to reignite the flame
b) text her at night today with something interesting

Author:  frisor [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 4:49 pm ]
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Definitely: a) wait for her to text me, and try to reignite the flame

Author:  gunzblazing [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 7:58 pm ]
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comments from anyone else?

Author:  Logic Savvy [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 8:30 am ]
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wait it out.
See if she still has interest in you, and then attempt to recreate the flame.
Just like running a marathon, you gotta pace yourself, or you'll gas the relationship.

Author:  CopernicanShift [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:48 pm ]
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you know that feeling of waiting for someone to text you back not sure if they will or not?

then they get back to you the next morning and you're pleased?

give her the pleasure

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