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| Author: | Fucker [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 1:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Controlling the frame!!! FUCK! |
So I decided to try this online dating thing right. I can get the girls to message back because I neg them. However, it's like we argue the whole time... I can't transition to comfort rapport, blablabla. If I do, I fail. Check out this example... Me: Finally a girl on here who didn’t write an essay about herself. Dig the profile. Any crazy plans this week? Me: I seen that you visited my profile but didn't reply. From a females perspective... what should I change about my profile? Her: It wasn't really you or your profile. Ha you just aren't really my type. You know, the whole it's not you it's me kinda deal. Good luck, though. Me: Why do you have to say it like that? Brat! Are you crazy? Or do you think you're some Ms. Universe? Her: Wow haha name calling? Really? That's appropriate for people who don't know eachother. Totally. I never said I thought anything of myself. You asked, and I said you aren't my type and it has nothing to do with you. It's just me and my tastes. I'd really recommend being less defensive if you're going to ask why people didn't reply to you. Me: You know what I got out of your message? You're a "Me, myself, and I" type of dude. You got your head so far up your ass, you could chew your food twice. When are you going to grow up? Her: Do you take it this hard every time you get rejected by someone? Me: Lol alright I'm done having fun with you. I'm clearly just messing with you. I even said you had your head up your ass, and called you a dude! I can't believe you didn't see what was going on. You didn't get bumped in the head as a child did you? Her: Woooooooooooooow Me: Awwh is little jumergirl upset. There there now. I'm officially adopting you as my little sister! But don't constantly nag your big Bro, okay Her: You are really creepy. I'm blocking you. Me: Says the dude who replies back within a minute. Do you live in your own fantasy world? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I thought her last message was a shit test, but I guess she blocked me considering it's been about 30 minutes and she usually messages me back within a minute. WTF MAN! Help! |
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| Author: | Logic Savvy [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 9:19 am ] |
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You gotta stop being a douche bag. People that go on dating sites for the most part have been hurt before, and that cocky funny shit won't work most of the time. Especially if you bombard them with it. You don't need to work on controlling your frame, you achieved being an asshole the whole time. You gotta work on calibration. |
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| Author: | Habitual Jerk [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 11:48 am ] |
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Bro, you've really got to learn the difference between a neg and being a complete dick. Also, girls will tend to respond differently to negs depending on how hot they are. For example an 8 or 9 can usually take a lot more heat than a 6 before become offended. This isnt set in stone but something I find to generally be true. Negs are meant to be used in conjunction with compliments as well. You push her away with a neg then pull her back in with a compliment. What you are doing is never going to build comfort. Why would any girl just want to be constantly insulted? Remember that neg theory is just a tool and not the "end all" for picking up women. You wouldn't try to paint with a hammer would you? Don't be a robot to lines and theories. Goodluck |
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| Author: | Darth Skater [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 2:47 pm ] |
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I agree you have to tone it down, that just sounded mean. I don't think anyone likes that. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 2:28 am ] |
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You're seriously socially retarded. |
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