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Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Problems moving into the kiss close needs evaluation.

Hey guys I'm about a month into using pua tactics and its working a treat. I'm getting a great success rate but I'm getting this reoccurring problem with moving from conversation to kiss close.
So last night I'm out with 2 guys and 1 girl who I was interested in, we're on the same course at Uni but this was the first time I'd talked to her (not nerves just different social circles). I'm using my usual stuff which revolves around exchanging playful negs, role reversal and standard kino escalation (no routines).
I isolate the girl (HB9 for the record) go in for a kiss and she pulls the "we're on the same course" line (its either that or "I barely know you" with others) I treat this with a prolonged silence coupled with general disinterest to make it socially awkward for her to reject me like that.
Later on that night outside in the smoking area I used a variation of styles 5 lies game to land a kiss and straight after she asks if I want to get a cab back to mine! happy days :).

I still can't help but feel alcohol factored into her feeling more comfortable with kissing me... there was hesitation the second where she had to check over her shoulder for anyone she knew on our course, it was like early LMR because once we kissed she was game to F-close. I really don't like how alcohols played a part in this, I think its cheapened what was actually good game.
I'm using kino to make the transition into kissing easier, I didn't chase her around, I had my own agenda and was a fun person to be around (modest too! :wink: ).
Any thoughts on what I can do to make this transition easier? In previous cases of this happening the targets left soon afterwards am I not building enough comfort? If not how do I know when I've done enough?

Thanks

R&B

Author:  detox75 [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:08 am ]
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Dude if your employing all these techniques after just a month your already a monster. You sound very competent already. The only advise I have given what you wrote is to take your own good advice. It seems like a comfort issue to me, so if your interested in this chick then add some more rapport/comfort while increasing the attraction. But choosing between being too aggressive and under aggressive your better off risking being too aggressive.

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