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Author:  faatnntaaf [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 11:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl stolen/ flaked HELP:)

This has happened a few times before.
The situation that ticked me to the point to ask my fellow
pua was yesterday. I was on my way to a party very confident ofc :). And when i got there immediately i was
getting compliments and ishh, i knew every girl thought
i was cute. So then i had to decide which on i wanted to game. I picked a girl n me and some other friends went to chill out front away from the party. I was freezing so i
Asked my target for her hoody, i got it and in like 2 seconds she told me she was cold. So i told her id warm her up. Then wrapped my arm around her for kino. I knew she was attracted me. Basically we had some kino moments later down the road. And she wanted to stay the night w. Me at my friends. So i was pretty hype until i got up and every chick in the house wanted to pull me around and talk to me n shit. I came back finally and my friend was with her, and was on her jock for the rest of the night. Then back at my friends they were cuddling for the rest of the nightt. :(. I was pretty mad, because i wanted her that night, but its cool. ALL I want is for this to stop happening.

-- thanks in advance to all who help.

faat

Author:  pumpington [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 10:30 am ]
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then dont make girls horny and leave them alone

Author:  TechSkill [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 4:31 am ]
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First of all I'd like to say one thing. About the compliments. If you handle compliments or other iois (indicators of interest) in an immature way, that will set you back incredibly far. If your expression changes, if you respond with long awkward pauses, or if you overreact and brag about it, you will lose your success. Your situation you described could have gone wrong somewhere else obviously, so I'll just cover some of the things that it could have been.

Second, the biggest problem with meeting new girls, is that you have no history, and little momentum if any. If you get too attached too soon, the girl might feel like you might be needy, and the attraction will fade. She might go along with it but the effect of your pickup game might not be that strong if you are too enthusiastic. The fact that you are so shaken up about this situation is perfectly natural, and understandable (we've all been there) but it shows that you were taking the event way more seriously than she was, and I am willing to bet that she detected that.

Finally, my advice to you is to have more than one prospect! Don't go to a party thinking that you need to find a girl and kinda "lock on" or else you will base the entire outcome of the night on one girl you don't even know's response to you! You don't have to decide on one girl to game! Remember as many PUA's say, "it's always on"!

Hope it helped, feel free to clarify whatever I've misinterpreted =)

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