At first I wasn't clear how her friends would work against me. I was thinking it would be the opposite. My thought was that being the ALPHA male around her and her friends would create social proof. Her friends would then see how fun I am to be around with and ask her, why aren't you with him??? Wishful thinking??? Perhaps but that is how I saw it especially after she told me what her friends thought about me.
Then I thought about the other side of the coin. I thought about what you guys meant by her friends working against me. I got to thinking that if they see me with her they'll question why she hangs out with me when she has a bf. This might cause her to raise her ASD. Or they might question me hanging out with her. I'm not sure if this is what you guys meant but I see it both ways now. Thanks for showing me the other side of the friends coin!
What cracks me up is one time she introduced me to this dude and he said, wait this isn't (bf's name)? I was thinking in my head nope, this is not. Meet his ALPHA male replacement, her soon to be new BF
