So I'll try to be as brief as possible. HB9 at work, 28 years old (4 years older than me) w/ 2 kids.
I started talking to her 2 months ago through company e-mail and we hit it off easy. E-mails led to (very) long phone calls for a while. Then after a week of that I asked her out to a movie date. Turns out she couldn't wait so she calls me to come over the night before and I accepted. We have a great time, make out, and I even stayed the night. Things went great for a while but we moved very fast. Even at work we'd meet up secretely and make out somewhere. Everything was roses, right?
Well as time went on things slowed down a bit. Less secret rendezvous at work, conversation isn't as interesting anymore (from both ends), rejection/excuses to meeting up outside of work... I pushed for exclusivity but it didn't work out.
I didn't get the LJBF speech, but she did make it clear that she's not interested in meeting anyone right now. From what I get she's still hung up on her ex husband, and the biggest thing that hurts me is my age. She prefers someone her age or older. Basically she's expressed that what's happened between us is crazy/unusual because I'm the only one who's gotten this far with her.
I used to stress the ex husband/age dilemma, but now I realize that if one masters PU then old ex's and preferences wont matter, so that's good! From my point of view, I think I need to DHV and build attraction all over again. I've been negging her once in a while and becoming more independent. Yeah, she still calls (she's always called the most out of the two of us, I'm not a phone person so that's my advantage) but no other area is improving. Even yesterday we had a secret rendezvous at work but that's it. She still drops IOI's here and there (I'm sure of it) but now, whatever we have, doesn't leave phone calls and random work rendezvous (anymore).
Sometimes I swear she reads PUA forums in order to counter techniques.
So what happened? Why are things fizzling out? Why did my game turn from a big, hairy bastard of a COCK to a withering impotent MEMBER? Suggestions? Comments? Help would be VERY appreciated... Thanks