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Author:  Equinox [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 10:00 pm ]
Post subject:  NEG follow up

I'm wondering what the best method to follow up a good neg is because I was caught last night throwing another neg too soon instead of another great way to show a DHV and I came off as an asshole.. I figure a question to the target's friend and display of dis-interest in the target would be better or if it's better to go in to some sort of DHV story about yourself instead. If a DHV story is better where's a good place to start?

Appreciate the advice....

-Equinox

Author:  Jack [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 10:26 pm ]
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what was teh neg you used?

my guess is the two negs you thought you used were really more insulting then negs

Author:  swiftone [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 7:16 am ]
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Delivery has lots to do with it... depends how you throw the neg and the timing...

Author:  white_russian [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 9:45 am ]
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Ouch, thats a tough one hey mate...
as jack suggested try using a lil
more subtil negs, try not to be too
insulting...

white_russian

Author:  Equinox [ Sat Sep 15, 2007 10:40 pm ]
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I said:

I like the way that dress looks on you, but it just reminds me of my couch at home.... I think she may have been a 7 or lower that's why she got insulted

Author:  stylewhatever [ Sun Sep 16, 2007 12:16 am ]
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I agree with swiftone

Author:  Rye Lee [ Sun Sep 16, 2007 12:42 am ]
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Quote:
I said:

I like the way that dress looks on you, but it just reminds me of my couch at home.... I think she may have been a 7 or lower that's why she got insulted
A better way to have put that would be something like "That's a nice dress...I think I've got a couch made out of the same material!" then you reach out your hand a bit and then stop and look at her as if you just remembered she was a person and you have to ask her permission first, and make a gesture like "is it ok if i feel your dress?" or say "do you mind?" then rub the material between your fingers and nod to yourself, then say "yep...that's the stuff" or "nope...my couch is a little softer" or something depending on how much you need to neg her to bring her self esteem to the right level.

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