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Rythms is right about not bringing up the boyfriend.
By bringing him up you'll only cause an unneccessary obstacle. One which you created yourself. She didn't mention him Why would you do that? If YOU bring him up it'll show a lack of confidence and healthy knowledge that you're competition with the boyfriend she'll start talking about how great her boyfriend is. So if you mention the b/f you might find yourself on a One way first class money back guaranteed trip to LJBF land!!! Peanuts and a swift kick in the butt included
Again... not true at all. Mentioning the boyfriend will not show a lack of confidence... I don't quite see how it could. Girls will usually say "I have a boyfriend" anyway when sarging. We all have, or should have, a response to this. Before you make such absolute remarks, do your homework. Learn from mPUAs who know what they are talking about...
I am not saying you need to mention a boyfriend, but if you do, it is not the end of the world, nor as exaggerated as SouthernCross makes it.
Also, mentioning the boyfriend does not bring up a "brag about my boyfriend" conversation. If you are able to play the conversation correctly, the way she will end up talking about her boyfriend is in a negative connotation. I have played the conversation out like this multiple times and can honestly tell you that if you do this right, the boyfriend destroyer routine will be easy and without any defending of the boyfriend.
I put up a field report a month or so ago where the boyfriend conversation came up and I slowly carved the boyfriend attachment out of her until she was hooked on me.
Don't give advice like you know if you only THINK you know what you are talking about.