HB has a bitch wall and makes a stupid comment about what I'm wearing... and I say...

"Wow you're cute, your IQ however just dropped about 2 points" and she kept a serious face and her friends kinda giggled...

was that okay???

Well, i honestly like it, but it may have been a little too harsh since you pretty much said she was stupid.

-fuzz

it was seriously the only thing I could think of...

coulda said something like...

"Well, i wouldnt let YOU dress me..." throwing the insult of clothing back at her

or

"Like i care what you think" turn and talk to her friends totally DLVing her

-fuzz

ANY COMMENT ABOUT CLOTHING GOOD OR BAD IS A IOI..And the neg was fine (although I would neg her about her appearance instead)

Without reading anything beyond your first post, I can see that she IOIed you and you didn't realize it.

Your response was not so good because it was a flat out insult (the best negs are either a mix of negative and positive or NEITHER negative nor positive). Any response that was relevant to her comment about your clothes would have been much better. For example:

"It's not my fault your sense of style is so unique (make quoting gesture with fingers, and then smile at her)."

you could even say something that is in no way negative or insulting, like:

"You just watch, next year EVERYONE is going to be wearing this shit (gesture towards your clothes)".

See how that's nicer, wittier, more confident, etc... than saying "you're dumb"?

cocky =/= asshole

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I think what you said did it's job well. Her friends even laughed, so it was an even larger DLV. As long as you said it while smiling, you should be fine. What happened after this?

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WOW you guys are so helpful... I guess I was so into my story I missed the IOI

Thanks... question...

I have my own business and I actually walk around malls and look for sharp people to recruit... every now and then I'll come across some HBs and one that I always drop by and say hello to, who works in those Make-up booths, now is showing some IOI's but its hard to tell... what would you guys respond to if she were to say playfully, "Go away and get to work!" ????

"you and i both know very well that you wouldnt like that." haha

-fuzz

"you and i both know very well that you wouldnt like that." Thats awesome Fuzz! I will not forget that.

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HAHAHA... That's awesome I love it! You the man Fuzz...

You're right, being sexy/looking good is a full time job.

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Haha, I like that one... Although, you NEED to be able to pull of C/F to use it... If you don't have the confidence for this remark, you will probably fail...

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My standard way of responding is

"I don't remember asking you your opinion... Are you always like this ?"

It usually takes a few seconds to register..

And then I follow up with..

"Oh I hate you. Come here.." (Hug.) (I Hate you .... credit Mystery)

Happy Sargings

Brother Mois

agree with the appearence neg thing.. was talking to a girlfriend of mine and she said that girls wanna feel that their irresistable, and if a guy throws a small neg about how she looks she will try and get him to change his mind and will come after him even more