And that's what A3 is for. Then you show you're interested in her and go to Comfort.
You start out by knowing that she will think higher of herself than you. You're the one that aproaches her after all. So you have to make sure that you switch roles.
You cant lower her value to much, but you're not gonna keep her at level and higher yours.
You calibrate to the girl and make sure her value lowers to a level you want, and you higher yours just above hers. Or even quite a bit above hers. Not too much.
Then when she signals IOI's you know she is interested and it means you reached a level where you dont need to neg or DHV to her. Then you can go into A3 and comfort.
So yeah DHV is a very powerfull aspect which goes hand in hand with negging. But indeed calibrate to the target and don't overdo it.
I tend to neg a bit too much.. why? Im an evil bastard.
Hope this helped a bit.
