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| Author: | Slywalker [ Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | The NLP Comfort Zone, the basis of all my closes! |
By request I'm posting this description about the NLP comfort zone, but first I have to say, this is not something you can learn simply from this post. Fist you learn how to use NLP in a non pick up related manner, learn techniques in how to build rapport, persuasion and create a connection, then you apply the NLP comfort zone to that and you will be unstoppable! This is pretty much the only thing my day game consists of and when I get it right I pull phone numbers 100% of the time, and since you have really created comfort and connection with this technique you get zero flakes. Since I learned how to do this properly I have really stepped up my game by miles. Number closing a girl in any random place and F-close her within a week is getting easy. Here is how it goes. Open, if you are confident enough to attempt this approach opening shouldn't be a problem, just start talking to her, keep it simple. Get her to start talking, you should really only do 10% of the talking and let her do 90% this is the opposite of what Mystery suggests. All you need to do now is to controll the convo, controll the topic, and keep her talking about things that makes her happy, keep the positive emotions up. As soon as she starts talking about anything that can be related to what I call a comfort zone, you are in, ready for the final move! The comfort zone can be anything, but it is usually a place or a hobby that she just loves, most people have more than one comfort zone. When she starts talking about it, you hear the passion in her voice, and you see her smiling with her whole face and you know this is it! Have her talk about it, encourage her to talk more about it, fill her with those positive emotions, watch her as she becomes more exhited and euphoric. Now, here is the trick, you start talking about it. For this example, let's pretend its a restaurant, she gets excited talking about it, and now you start commenting it. This is the biggest part of the NLP comfort zone, put yourself in her comfort zone, say something like "yeah when I go there I would so order a three course meal and share the dessert with you" and all of a sudden, as simple as that was, you are now in her fantasy, in her comfort zone, you are associated with her positive emotions. Now use that to number close and leave! I can't emphasize that enough, as soon as the emotions are on top, get her number and get out, you wanna leave her with the positive emotions for you on its peak. Text her after about an hour and give her your number, don't wait too long call or text her like the next day, keep it brief, try to set up a date quite soon, you don't want the positive emotions to fade. Being associated with her positive emotions is extremely effective, and it is not evil or manipulative in any way, everyone loves to be happy and feel good! (This is similar but not exactly the same technique to how Ross Jeffries works.) |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:27 am ] |
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I like this post. I think it works great and matches my experience. I might use it someday if I am horney and see a beautiful girl. I won't kid myself though. I know I will be manipulating her feelings to fullfill my desires, and I am O.K. with that. ma⋅nip⋅u⋅late /məˈnɪpyəˌleɪt/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [muh-nip-yuh-leyt] –verb (used with object), -lat⋅ed, -lat⋅ing. 1. to manage or influence skillfully, esp. in an unfair manner: to manipulate people's feelings. 2. to handle, manage, or use, esp. with skill, in some process of SPAM or performance: to manipulate a large tractor. 3. to adapt or change (accounts, figures, etc.) to suit one's purpose or advantage. 4. Medicine/Medical. to examine or treat by skillful use of the hands, as in palpation, reduction of dislocations, or changing the position of a fetus. |
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| Author: | nel3000 [ Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:38 am ] |
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nice one dood, leaving her with high positive emotions. |
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