I was out in the mall the other day.

i approached a 2 set by stating that one of the girls (the one i liked) had a very similar dress sense to a very good femal friend of mine whos birthday it is in a few days and i wanted to get her an outfit she would like and i asked them if they could give me some ideas as to what type of clothes they would buy if they was in my position. I just said this expecting them to threw me a few ideas that i could carry the conversation on with but instead the one i liked actually asked if i wanted to join them.

I thought this woulda been a good point to throw in a quick neg. something like "oh, you trust me that much already? thats not good" or something like that. i havent really thought of one yet but i didnt say anything either as i didnt wanna say something stupid and myself look like an ass.

anyway if anyone has been in this position and a gidl in the mall has actually asked you to join them few mins after meeting them what would you say as a quick neg?

thanks

Migz

kk, first, that line, "oh, you trust me that much already? thats not good", isn't good, because, shit, should they be worried about trusting you? i think that would just make you come off as creepy.

second, you asked them for help, and they were helping you out, so why the hell would you want to neg them? How about a "Thank you?"

well in any case, it wasnt really needed as i got the number close neway.